Last night

I'm laying naked in a bed next to my wife. Last night we had sex with a new couple. We each had rooms at the Salt Lake Grand America. We first had dinner with them at the hotel restaurant. He owns a construction company. She's runs an art studio. They are in their late 20's. (The couple that we didn't play with the night before was barely 21). This new couple, "Drew" and "Darcy" have been swinging for the past two years. At dinner we shares stories. Neither of us had had any drama with swinging. We shared stories about the parties we'd been to and the secrets we keep from people at work. We talked about how we met and our kids. Usually stuff.

Then we headed up to their room. A very nice room with a separate foyer. We ordered dessert. They offered us drinks, we explained that we don't drink, so I just took a coke.

They showed us photos of their new home and all the woodwork he did. I could tell that Christy thought he was attractive. Usually she's into the other girl more, but tonight she was into him more. He wasn't suave, but was rugged. She was very friendly and sweet. Eventually Christy pulled out the sex toys and showed then what we brought. There's sometimes some awkwardness trying to figure out how to move the conversation from "tell me about your job" to "I'd like to have sex with your wife." Christy showed them this good lube that we have and said that it's good for a massage. We all agreed to move to the bedroom. The women got naked and the guys undressed to their shorts. (We prepared by not wearing our garments to dinner - just secular/sporting underwear). Once the women were naked and face down, we swapped partners and gave the other woman a long back massage. This was our first experience that didn't start with girl-girl play. After a while, we swapped spots so the girls could give us a massage. Everyone was talking and having a good time. Very friendly.

After five minutes of that, I sat up and asked Darcy if I could kiss her. She said yes, so I did. Christy and Drew were doing the same thing. Then we went at it, all the usual stuff: kissing, sucking on her clit, fingering her, playing with her tits. I love looking over at my smoking hot wife and seeing the very sensuous look on her face as she's getting aroused. She looks like a porn star. And the way she moans is so hot. I was then laying back getting a blow-job. Darcy was good at that, but she was better at kissing. She has a very aggressive tongue. It was so hot to see my wife deep-throat Drew. Darcy told me that I could go inside. I got a condom on and so did Drew. He also had a vibrating cock ring on that Christy had brought. He'd never used one before. You have no idea how hot it is to see some other guy's cock enter your wife's pussy. Her legs were bent up to near her ears and he was in the push- up position just slowly sliding in and out of her. She moaned and purred. Meanwhile, I was doing the same thing to Darcy. It was so hard to not cum immediately after penetrating her. I tried to hold off. Prior to this, I had given her an orgasm with a vibrator and my fingers. I started thrusting and I knew that I couldn't hold back. So I let it go. It was so good. I stayed hard for a few minutes afterward so I kept pounding her. Eventually I pulled out and went to the bathroom to removed the condom and wipe off. When I returned to the bedroom, Drew had Christy sideways on the bed with him standing next to the bed entering her. He would reach down and push the vibrating cock ring against her clit and make her cum over and over. He asked if it was too much for her. She said no, that it was good. He pounded her for another five minutes. Eventually she said that she needed to take a break now that she'd had 20 orgasms. I suggested that Drew do his wife while Christy and I took a break. He entered his wife doggy style. Very hot.

We then got dressed a bit and sat and talked with them. Christy and Darcy arranged to have lunch together sometime. We offered to let them keep the bottle of lube. They talked about heading out on the town at this point. We told then that we were "too old" and that we preferred bed. (It was 1 am at this point). We gave a round of hugs and handshakes. Then we headed out the door and to our room.

In our room, just the two of us, we recounted the best parts of the encounter and it got us turned on again, so I jacked off onto Christy while she did herself with a vibrator.

Laying here now, I want Christy to text them to see if Drew wants to come to our room and keep pounding her brains out. But she's still tired. So it will just have to remain a fantastic memory.

Green Eyed Monster

We had a date with a couple set up for tonight. It was with a couple we have played with once before. They are attractive and nice. We had a great time with them the last (and only other) time we played.

We'd prepared for this night at least a month in advance. We got dressed up, but 30 minutes before we were scheduled to meet them at the restaurant I got a funny feeling. I had not been super excited to play with them again, but I didn't tell Joe and I didn't know why. But now I knew why. I was feeling jealous. I recalled that at our first date with them, she was very into my husband. She is much younger and is flirty. Joe liked it. But I remember feeling a bit of jealousy. So, before we headed out the door tonight to meet them, I told my husband that we could meet them for dinner, but that I didn't want us (specifically him) to have sex with them. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to watch it without feeling jealous. And I worried that she would attach to him too much and that Joe, being a man, wouldn't be able to resist her if she ever tried to pull him away.

I appreciate that Joe let me decide that for us. He assured me that it wouldn't happen and that I had nothing to worry about, but he loves me enough and respects me enough to just go along with my requests even if they don't make complete sense to him and even if they're at the last minute.

So we went to dinner with them and let then know that we were happy to treat them to the meal, but that we'd have to cut out afterward. We had a pleasant meal. We talked about swinging, our kids, their travels, etc. They were a little dissapointed that they wouldn't get to have sex with us. They even asked if they could take Joe alone even if I wasn't going to play. Joe said that he was flattered, but that we don't play alone.

So we came back home and the two of us had great sex like we've never had before, then we laid in bed and watched a movie.

We have a date with another couple tomorrow night. This will be our first time with them. I don't expect any of the same issues. But we never know what to expect. That's part of the fun and it's always an adventure.

Unwelcome Visitor

Just for fun, I was googling "Mormon Swingers".  Of course, my blog and links to my blog came up.  This link also came up: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a30576385/?cpg=-1#c2368158940

It's a forum composed of Mormon mommies who during November and December of this year, have been chatting in their forum about swingers, with references to my blog.  They've been doing this for 16 pages.  I thought it would be interesting to drop in and say hi.  As soon as I did, my post got deleted by the moderator.  I posted again, and it got deleted.  She said that I was disruptive to the community.  Then the forum got locked so no one could post.

I feel like the young hussy walking into a hair dressers in a backwoods salon.  All the regulars are there gossiping about the floozy in town.  As soon as I try to be nice, the one under the dryer says, "Well, I never!" and they all pull their magazines to their face.  I know when I'm not wanted.

Christmas Eve

I'm sitting in the car in the driveway after delivering Christmas gifts to families from Church. We also took the kids to visit an elderly sister who's in the hospital. Unfortunately, she'll be there through Christmas. I'm now listening to David Sedaris read his "Santa-land Diaries". It's awesome. If you haven't heard it, you must!

Found Another Couple of Wild Mormons!

I got this today via email.  We've been chatting all day, and I've learned so much about her.  We are very alike.  We've even divulged more of our identities to each other--"golden handcuffs"--to prove ourselves to each other. Here's Veronica's story.

Hello, I just discovered your blog, and I am in shock at the similarities to our lives. I am an active LDS woman with several kids living in a non-LDS part of the US. My husband and I met in college, and we've been married for 17 years. Ups and downs throughout our marriage, but the past year has been AMAZING....and this past year is VERY similar to your 2009 and 2010 posts.

I had always had a little bit of "bi" curiosity....wondering what a woman's nipple would feel like on my tongue, how a breast would feel in my hand, etc...but never dreamed I'd act on it. My husband is a great husband, father and provider, but was less "devout" than me about church. He was always active, performed his callings, hit-and-miss on home teaching, and just "liked" being LDS. He was exposed to porn as a teen and looked at it regularly in his younger years. He looked at it a couple times in our early marriage, and as an insecure woman, I FREAKED, threatened to leave him, etc. (Wow, thinking back, I can't believe how I acted...) I met him my freshman year of college, during his senior year at a small regional university.

About a year ago, we were having some stress in our marriage and decided we were going to get away for a long weekend - no kids, just us - 4 days together in Vegas. On the flight there, he suggested seeing an erotic revue, a topless show or something. I was intrigued, but said that I wouldn't be able to relax and enjoy myself. I hinted that maybe some alcoholic beverages (I'd only tasted a couple times in my life before I was baptized) might help me lose enough inhibitions... I thought he would freak that I suggested it ... Instead, he acted like it was no big deal. He said "fine by me" and called the flight attendant over. He asked what I liked those times I'd drank in college. I got some vodka and orange juice. We decided this would be a "one time stays-in-Vegas" event. (the alcohol.)

With the alcohol, the sex was SO MUCH MORE FUN!!!! I orgasm so much with it, and my husband describes me as being "in a ditch" without it. He describes having to "rock the car out of the ditch" - that it takes lots and lots of foreplay before I really get into sex. I totally understand why the church teaches against it, because it truly influenced me to do things that I would not have done otherwise. My husband and I came to an agreement........that alcohol was dangerous, that the church was wise to tell us to avoid it, but that we could keep it safe by agreeing that I would only drink in his presence, and it was only as a "sexual tool", almost like my Viagra for women. It relaxes me so much, that I want LOTS and LOTS of sex.

It looks like you have not included alcohol, but for us, we feel it is okay, when it is used "medicinally" ;) Sort of like we'd have no problem with a man taking Viagra as he got older. (Yeah, justifications.....but we all make them for what we like to do.)

So, back to my story... We went to a show in Vegas called Fantasy at the Luxor. It really piqued my interest. The women were beautiful, and I really liked the show and was surprised just how many other women were there watching. (no single women, but lots of couples and single men.) As we were leaving the show, I suggested that we go check out a Vegas strip club. I figured, we're being wild on this one weekend - if not now, when? He wasted no time at all getting a taxi to take us to Sapphire. He had gone to strip clubs a few times in college and hadn't ever expected to get me to go (remembering my previous porn freakouts).

Holy heck! I had no idea. I had no idea that lap dances had so much grinding..... I had always thought there was distance between the patron and dancers, uh, no!!! He told me later he was very nervous that things were "going to go off the rails". He refused lap dances, kept ordering the alcohol for me while he drank Diet Coke, etc. (He has never drunk alcohol BTW.) A couple girls offered dances, but it wasn't until about 3 drinks, that I lost enough inhibitions to enjoy a lap-dance....and enjoy it I did.

I too discovered that I had a HUGE ENJOYMENT of exhibitionism. I had some ridiculously "high-mileage" lap dances that probably should have been in the VIP room. The men all around were REALLY enjoying the show. The girls would give me a dance, then all the men would want a dance from her.....good for business, and the bouncers watched and never stopped anything. I had multiple orgasms right out there in front of all those people! I ended up getting dances for a couple hours and my husband LOVED IT!!!!!!! We went back to our hotel room and had some of the best sex we'd had in a long time.

Turns out that night woke the bi-sexual beast inside me!!!! :) We decided that maybe we would get away once every year or so to Vegas, and this would be our "Vegas secret".

So anyway, we came back home, but I couldn't stop thinking about women....and I wanted more - I wanted to go further. We started going to strip clubs. At first we went to some of the surrounding cities, then we started going locally....and my interest grew and grew and grew. We've probably visited 10 strip clubs in the last year. Each time it was a similar scene - I would get the dances, my husband would have a great time watching, but he wouldn't participate.

I think he was worried that he would "break" this new phase. He told me later that he was super excited to have gotten this far.  He didn't press for any more, just enjoyed watching girls dance for me. Eventually, I convinced him to get lap dances and that I wouldn't be jealous. It surprised me that I LOVED seeing it.

I kept wanting more. I wanted to actually make out with a woman - kiss her, feel her body. If anything visits to the strip clubs could be a little frustrating in that regards. We talked about getting an escort, but my fear of possibly being arrested wiped that idea right out of my mind! (I could just imaging having my name appear in a Google search by our children 5 years from now).

That all changed when we found out that prostitution is not illegal in Canada!!!!!!! Pimping and brothels are illegal. "Street walkers" are illegal. But escorts - both in-call and out-call are fully legal. They're allowed to advertise on the internet....and making visits to your hotel room is not illegal AT ALL!!! I was intrigued. ;)

We ordered passports and started planning (and fantasizing). To not give away our location at this point, I'll just say it was within driving distance to Montreal. I tell you, the larger cities in Canada are like an adult DISNEY LAND!!!! Holy crap.. - beautiful women - lots of them! And it was only $250 - $500 an hour for classy, well reviewed escorts. WOW. OH MY GOSH!!

This weekend was everything I fantasized about...but better. i hadn't imagined that it would be so guilt and jealousy-free. Amazing threesomes. We saw three amazing ladies that weekend. (This was just a few weeks ago.)

I was SO CONCERNED that seeing my husband touching another woman would cause me some serious issues. My husband closely observed me to make sure I was okay the whole time, and instead of being bothered by it, it just made me FREAKING HORNY to see him doing the things to these beautiful women that he does to me. I had a FABULOUS TIME!!! I just can't get enough. Our sexual passion has just grown all the more after this weekend. I can't wait to experience it all again.

We aren't sure if we are going to jump to full swinging stuff or not....but it's been an amazing journey thus far. Our marriage is better than ever....and my husband can't keep his hands off me. I am just floored seeing that there is a similar couple out there with the same religious values who have had the same experiences.

Veronica

Another Great Swinging Experience Last Night

The Scene the Morning After

Last night was probably (definitely) our best swinging experience so far.  Having played with a few couples in the past, we were less anxious and concerned about the details of what may or may not happen.  Also, we’d gotten to know this couple pretty well from a party we attended a couple of months ago and I, just by happenstance, sat next to them on the flight out of Vegas.  Over the last few weeks, she and I had been texting one another occasionally to set up this date.  This is the first play-date that I, not Joe, have been more in charge of.  He loved that I took the lead and it made me feel more in control.  Melanie is really hot and so is her husband.  We got the hotel room and a connecting room.  They knocked on the door and we let them in.  It’s a little awkward (and exciting) to welcome and hug someone who you KNOW you’re going to be having sex with in a few hours.  They came in and sat down and we just talked and talked for at least an hour.  It was great conversation, just like with any other couple.  We talked about kids, and family, and work, and sex, and swinging, and people we know.  In the past, with our first few couples, it’s been a little awkward wondering how we’ll make that transition from chatting on the couch to “OK, let’s have sex now”.  But this time we didn’t put pressure on ourselves.  We just talked and talked until Melanie said, “Let’s go look at the toys in the bedroom.”  So, we did. 

We girls laid on the bed side by side and the guys sat on a bench at the foot of the bed.  We looked at the sex toys and talked about experiences with them.  She and I got closer and rubbed arms and then we just started making out.  Our husbands sat and watched.  It was very hot and not awkward at all.  Of this time, Joe later commented that there should be a name for that period when the two girls are making out and before the guys are invited in.  All the blood flows out of their brain and they just stare.  What brain function they do have left is wavering between “I want to watch this forever” and “I want to get in there too.”   She and I undressed each other, and kissed and licked, and made out.  She gave me oral sex—very well I must say.  She was really, really good. Then it was my turn to do her.  She wanted me to use a toy on her, so I did.  She squired and moaned and grabbed on anyone within reach.  When she was done, she invited the guys in.  In the past, each girl has made out with her own husband for a bit, but Melanie asked if she could play with Joe right away.  Joe didn’t mind at all.  Everyone got naked on the bed.  Ben and I made out and kissed and licked everything.  I gave him oral sex and used all the techniques I knew.  Yes, I can deep throat.  He fingered me and Joe fingered Melanie.  We women had a lot of orgasms.  Joe got a good blowjob from Melanie.  To this point, both guys were holding off on cumming.  Melanie got on her hands and knees and kissed me while Ben played with my pussy with his mouth and hands.  I came so many times.  Joe fingered Melanie deep and hard from behind.  She had told me before that she likes it a bit rough, so Joe used a few fingers and pounded her hard.  She kneeled up and he used one arm to hold her up while the other was in her pussy.  She came very hard.  It was great to watch my husband do that to her.

Then she said to Joe, “get a condom”.  I told Ben the same thing.  We let the guys pick the position.  Joe and Melanie picked “missionary”.  Ben had me on my back with my knees up to my chest.  Then both us woman got our pussies fucked (sorry for swearing) by men who weren’t our husband.  After just a few minutes, Joe told Melanie that he felt like he was going to cum.  (Earlier she’s told us that the guy the previous night never did get done, so she’s worried that it was he fault.  [Intellectually we women know that it’s not our fault, but we still worry].  Joe didn’t want her to “fail” again.)  She smiled and said, “go for it.”  So he did.  After he did, they smiled at each other, then he pulled out and removed his condom and dumped it in the trash and wiped off.  Ben kept pounding and thrusting in me.  He changed positions to the side of the bed with him standing and with me in various positions.  It was so good that it hurt.  When it became too intense for me, he slowed his thrusting.  He was very good.  Joe caressed Melanie and she wanted to play with a vibrator.  I helped her have another orgasm with it.  We then paused for a while to talk about our dogs and whatever.  We all just sat on the bed, naked, tired, hot, and comfy.  We really thought that we were done for the night, but Joe got an erection again and he and Melanie started touching each other again.  I offered to finish Ben off, so he sat in bed against the headboard and I went down on him.  After a few minutes, I suggested that we swap back to our own spouses so the guys could get done without a condom.  Joe rode me missionary style and came in me.  Melanie and Ben were going at it next to us.  Joe and I had a simultaneous orgasm.  (We do that frequently).  He leaned in and kissed me and told me how beautiful I am and how much he loved me. 

Everyone got up and put on a robe or pants, had a few bites of snacks, then we chatted for a few more minutes about how they’ll have to get up early.  So we hugged them goodnight and we went into our separate room.   When we woke up in the morning, as planned, they had already gone, but they left us a nice text.  We exchanged a few texts today telling them how much we appreciated them and the experience.

Then we drove to Church.  Church was good too.

Texting a Date

We’ve been wanting to play with a couple next weekend.  One of the couples what we met on our last Vegas trip doesn’t live far from us.  In fact, we were on the same plane home from our last Vegas trip and I sat next to her.  Anyway, we didn’t think we’d get to play with them next weekend because they have a Christmas party, but here’s what she texted me today.

Melanie: We have an option for next Saturday night if you are open to a compromise.  It’s not ideal, but can make it up to you next time.  We could leave our Christmas party at 10 pm and meet up with you guys wherever.  You mentioned downtown, so would be about 10:30 pm at the latest.  If we set a time to meet, promise we will be there at that time…we are very respectful of other people’s opportunities to go out.

Christy: That sounds good to me, let me run it by [Joe] and get back to you!  I get giddy thinking of it.  Christy

(later)

Christy: Let’s go for it.  As long as you are sure that we aren’t taking you away from your vanilla party! We don’t want to be party crashers. 

Melanie: Yea!!  Tell Joe that I will make it so worthwhile.  Muh…I want you. We can still make appearances and visit and then go out and play.  Plus we have a built-in sitter so we can stay out all night.

Christy: Yea!!  I’ll book the hotel right now! I can’t wait. Tell your husband the same thing.  Mmmm. I’m wet thinking of it.

Melanie: You and me both Hon.  Just let me know where you want to meet up at. We will be fairly casual for this party. ..jeans/nice tops kind of thing.

Christy: Sounds good. I don’t plan on the clothes staying on for long. J

Melanie: That would be why I like you so much!

(later)

Christy: I got the four of us the two-bedroom presidential suite (our treat) at the [hotel] in the downtown area for Saturday, December 10^th.  Plan on working up an appetite since it includes breakfast. Kisses.

Melanie: Wow! So I guess that means we really have to put out, huh?

Christy: That means that we really want you bad!

Melanie: You realize that I am so hot for you, I would take you in the back of a car if I had to.  Just saying . . .

Christy: Oh, I feel the same.  I plan on being naked in the tub waiting for you!  I’ll do you in the car in Vegas when we meet in February.  We can invite Stacy to join us.

Melanie: Nice! I like my women wet.  That would be fun . . .one thing I have not gotten to do, more than two of us females.

Christy: Me neither! J  Let’s plan on it.  It will get the guys all stiff and ready to go watching us . . . Ooo I just realized that I get to play with two bald men in Vegas!!!  What a weekend!!! I get to warm up this month with your husband and you and then look forward to more in February.  All though, I may not be able to wait that long! We may be setting up another date with you guys in January.

Melanie: They would love that.  My husband adores watching me.  I’m a fan of Randy as well….big fan.  Made me laugh when first met them, didn’t realize how much he looked like my husband.  I was like “I’m strangely attracted to you!”  I think [Joe] is very attractive as well and look forward to teasing him too.

Christy: [Joe] will love playing with you too.  I’ve got to get to bed, but I’ll be having hot dreams now.

I'll let you know how the date turns out.