tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post7423379600531104437..comments2023-08-16T06:38:41.669-06:00Comments on Swingers-In-Love: Hot Wifing ItAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-92098790105935912302016-09-04T13:51:47.406-06:002016-09-04T13:51:47.406-06:00Not 100% that is what i ment by challenged in your...<br />Not 100% that is what i ment by challenged in your faith.<br /><br />So what time today is your "date"?. are you prepared for what may come ? Feelings of adultery perhaps? Moving off solo leaving your sex "with spouse" justifcation for not being adultery of years past?<br /> <br />Sorry for all deletes trying to get said what i wanted.<br />DeleteSenihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-4204986161467296972016-09-04T13:47:45.754-06:002016-09-04T13:47:45.754-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Senihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-55283346944521634392016-09-04T13:34:16.435-06:002016-09-04T13:34:16.435-06:00Hello, Joe here. Christy is out on her sex-date wi...Hello, Joe here. Christy is out on her sex-date with Brad. See the post above. <br /><br />I think we'd say that we challenged our previously-held beliefs and we found their truth-claims to be wanting. <br /><br />Adultery is a charged term with multiple definitions. We won't accept that term. I don't believe that there is such thing as "sin". Also not sure what "spouse justification of years past" means. Christy is having sex with Brad because I am encouraging it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-23855353518107441472016-09-04T13:25:20.220-06:002016-09-04T13:25:20.220-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Senihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-52531976920214235242016-09-04T11:54:32.705-06:002016-09-04T11:54:32.705-06:00Grey. Maybe a bit (10%) sadist, but it's 90% t...Grey. Maybe a bit (10%) sadist, but it's 90% that he can now empathize with how I've felt for the last 6 years. He and I agree that it's not a bad feeling, it's just one that lingers there are wants to be acknowledged. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-58578712680250884622016-09-04T11:52:27.031-06:002016-09-04T11:52:27.031-06:00If I'd related the details of our kid asking i...If I'd related the details of our kid asking if we were swingers, you might not be as concerned that they actually think we are. I failed to provide enough background on the exchange. That one child may have a 5% suspicion. He probably has a 10% suspicion that we work for the CIA (which we don't). <br /><br />No, the one in college is would not be able to handle it.<br /><br />Joe is not "clipped". He'll risk it with condoms for now.<br /><br />We aren't faith challenged. We know where our faith currently is, and it's not 100% in-line with the core LDS handbook policies.<br /><br />Rather than calling them 'rules', Joe should have called him his 'covenant' or 'manifesto'. He wrote them. I didn't. Covenants with god are similarly one-sided: If we do a bunch of stuff, then he gives us miracles. We don't say to god: if you do all the same stuff, then we'll give you similar miracles. These agreements are 'one-sided' because of each individual's status (me, Joe, god, etc).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-25568908900276519952016-09-04T11:48:10.107-06:002016-09-04T11:48:10.107-06:00Bit of a sadist, liking to panic him.
It was the ...Bit of a sadist, liking to panic him.<br /><br />It was the youngest still at home noticing things that helped end our hotwife experience. Who knows what life would be like had we started a year later once she was on her own.Callenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17060446489304259464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-76615583099501209572016-09-04T11:32:30.373-06:002016-09-04T11:32:30.373-06:00Thanks for posting the rules. Seems very one sided...Thanks for posting the rules. Seems very one sided. Senihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-19184954806598959242016-09-04T11:30:03.919-06:002016-09-04T11:30:03.919-06:00 If they asked , then they know or highly suspect ... If they asked , then they know or highly suspect . And if they do know , now they know you are willing to lie about it. Not sure that is good. The one in college, probably is old enough to handle it . However knowing for sure may give that child license to go to the college sex parties thst abound. .... well mom and dad do it , my friends do it ... What am i waiting for.<br /><br />50 years ago when i graduated college . I was aware of a few that had sex . My dorm mate fir one. He had a child his first semester from his high school flings. Never heard then of the orgy parties that seem to be prevalent in college .now. <br /><br />As for Joe , he can get clipped so as not to be able to start another family. <br /><br />i gather you are being faith challenged. I no longer believe in organized religion myself. seems all are more doctrine of man and God takes second seat. <br /><br /><br /><br /> Senihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-53903931936305452982016-09-04T08:03:01.898-06:002016-09-04T08:03:01.898-06:00Did I not post the rules? Now I'm not sure why...Did I not post the rules? Now I'm not sure why I didn't. I guess I'll post them now. <br /><br />No, the rules that were created were created by Joe for Joe regarding what he does. No, Joe does not currently have the same option--he admits that he doesn't think as clearly as I do when it comes to sex: he could get someone pregnant, I can't get pregnant; he could more easily be seduced away out of our marriage, (he and I both know that it would be harder for a guy to pull me away). So, no, Joe doesn't currently have a hall-pass; but I'm not totally closed to the idea if we find the right woman.<br /><br />We were just joking last night that if Brad wanted to take me to Cancun for the weekend, that I might go. (I liked seeing the panic look on Joe's face. He eventually agreed that I could go as long as Brad started sharing in the household chores. Joe actually liked that idea more than I thought he would. -Joe likes the idea of polyamory.)<br /><br />The oldest of the kids is off to college. The younger have noticed that we're dressing up more and going out and have friends that they've never heard of. One kid even asked if we're swingers. We lied. Kids aren't stupid though; we just hope that they think we're super cool. We actually have an awesome relationship with all our kids and our kids and our kids' friends seem to really like us.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-82562063866259728722016-09-04T04:59:24.120-06:002016-09-04T04:59:24.120-06:00So christy , going out on your own was in the rul...So christy , going out on your own was in the rules that you never let us read ?<br />I assume joe had the same options. ?<br />When do separate sex vacations start?<br />Also I am wondering if your kids are getting old enough to realize that mom and dad are up to something secret with all these adventures going on?Senihnalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419210808131115731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-55607346480506904292016-09-03T15:04:14.416-06:002016-09-03T15:04:14.416-06:00My wife and I tried swinging back in the days when...My wife and I tried swinging back in the days when Yahoo groups were just really getting going well. One was even called Mormon Swingers. About a year and a half ago, after more than a decade away, I decided to see what the new technology had given the swingers to find each other with. The search engine led me to this blog under its old name, and a few Twitter accounts. One of the Twitter accounts was a Mormon hotwife. As I read her tweets, and some others, I realized our swinging had actually become more of a hotwife type of experience. We never found a couple to play with but through the chats and messages on Yahoo my wife met some guys. In the chats it was like piranha around fresh meat. Her first date was with a First Counselor in a Bishopric. (not ours) For him it was just sex and new experiences, for another, it became love but he finally worked things out with his wife, and another asked her to leave me.<br /><br />It seems because of the etiquette in the swinging community there is less room to determine just what you do as in the hotwife lifestyle. In essence, we were breaking etiquette in some of what we did. There are those that think hotwife/cuckold has certain meanings but I've found almost as many different meanings as I've found couples that share about their experiences.<br /><br />I too loved how my wife responded to more than just me telling her she was wonderful. I think the amount of control the hotwife has in the marriage is far more apparent than in swinging, in some to the point of a dom/sub type of situation. Joe, this will be a very different situation than when you've seen Christy playing in a swinging experience. She, and to the extent she lets her dates (bulls) influence things, will decide how much you know about the dates, and it could be very exciting to you or very bad. It sounds like you want to make it good so that will make the adjustments easier. This could be a fling of relatively short duration, or it could become your lifestyle. You two together will decide which it is.<br /><br />I think part of being a good cuck is dealing with the feelings you've described. I know after some husbands get to where they have dealt with what you call jealousy, the couples will actually try to find other couples to talk to. Unlike swinging where a get together with another couple could lead to play time or not, with the hotwife it is almost guaranteed to be just talking. I'm not a therapist, but if you need someone online to talk to, I think from what I've got my name set at you or Christy could find a way to contact me.<br /><br />I hope it works well, what ever you two decide to do with this new adventure.Callenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17060446489304259464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-90983640144182398852016-09-03T13:43:01.134-06:002016-09-03T13:43:01.134-06:00We are choosing to not define the relationship as ...We are choosing to not define the relationship as "open" or "poly" or anything. When you define it, you determine what it is or isn't simply by the name. We'll DO what we want to DO, and if a name fits perfectly that's fine, but my guess is that a name won't fit. <br /><br />Best wishes to you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-89592220544922853452016-09-03T13:09:54.815-06:002016-09-03T13:09:54.815-06:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Mormon manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09563958959543165797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-45887960798674560502016-09-03T13:08:56.892-06:002016-09-03T13:08:56.892-06:00It's allways been my biggest fantasy to watch ...It's allways been my biggest fantasy to watch my wife fuck another man, but I don't think I could do this, are you two thinking of having ano open marriage where you both can fuck anyone else, I would love having a wife that would agree to swing, that way I could watch her, but this would scare me to be honest... good luck, I live vicariously thru you sexually... 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