tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post8231026586632903993..comments2023-08-16T06:38:41.669-06:00Comments on Swingers-In-Love: Sex in Paris and BeyondAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16617103943393500409noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-24454708408728769112018-05-16T14:59:27.453-06:002018-05-16T14:59:27.453-06:00So, this is your life now? Work, travel somewhere ...So, this is your life now? Work, travel somewhere to have sex either at a club or paid for, work some more. You mentioned before you were dating but that must not have worked. If you enjoy this then great, but I wonder if you are now looking for something different. Some people in the lifestyle will get involved with groups that try to help others meet up but that doesn't seem to fit your desires or inhibitions your family situation places on you. There seems to be only a few reading this blog but maybe you have some in other places. You may be feeling very alone after distancing from your church. It seems you have a wonderful wife but still are looking for new experiences. There is just so much time between posts on here that I hope you are filling it with something, maybe many sex parties that you don't report on because each one is so similar to the last. I think that has to get to be mechanical or routine.<br /><br />In the past on this blog the big gaps were probably due to family and other responsibilities taking up time but lately it seems it is just waiting for the next big story. Are you finding ways to get more dates? That last one seemed to be with swingers willing to get to know you more than just some quick sex. Are there groups, like there are for swingers, that help you meet up for polyamorous types of dates? I have seen some poly conventions mentioned online before, but those didn't seem to include chances to meet potential dates like swinger conventions seem to have a lot of meet up opportunities.<br /><br />In some ways it seems you have come full circle from paying for Christy to have new experiences to paying for you to have a new experience. What parts have been fulfilling? What would you do differently? Where do you go from here?Callenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17060446489304259464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-89973893663257596602018-04-23T07:24:18.941-06:002018-04-23T07:24:18.941-06:00The club sounds like it could have been fun. The ...The club sounds like it could have been fun. The prostitution sounds like it was machanical. aaaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10511877788230682868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3288242234953428836.post-46154786361693960352018-04-14T18:39:25.115-06:002018-04-14T18:39:25.115-06:00As much as I think sex is fun, for me part of the ...As much as I think sex is fun, for me part of the fun is the personal interaction. When my wife and I tried swinging last decade we would get to know a little about the people first. The swinging dates you described early in your blog would be more exciting to me than the hooker or sex club your describe here. It seems you once went on a swinger cruise and the report felt similar, just hurry and hook up. I guess the going out some where and talking, like at a restaurant would be an important part for me. It seems I used to think a huge sex club would be exciting. I guess I would be better off in a smaller party or just a couples type date. I could watch my wife being given sexual pleasure and hopefully be giving someone else some pleasure. Those two things would make it more fun and enjoyable to me.Callenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17060446489304259464noreply@blogger.com