Kink Festival

Last night we went to a Kink Festival.  We took some new vanilla friends who we were hoping to convert into swingers.  It didn't happen last night, but maybe one day.

We were also expecting to see or have sex at the club, but it was just a regular night club that was turned into a kinky festival for a night.  There were booths set up selling whips, corsets, and kinky jewelry.  The stage area had a dance floor and people were dressed very Gothic dancing to laser light and industrial techno music--not really our thing.  Lots of pushed up huge boobs, but no nipples showing :( Too much melancholy noise and depressive stares going on in there, so we bugged out early.

Maybe next time well just take our new friends to a hotel room and try to seduce them. ;)

Just a routine sex party . . .

Some towns are more swinger-dense than others.  This weekend, we were in our home town as we usually are, and even though there aren't a lot of open swingers, we wanted to hold a little event regardless, so we did.  We put out feelers on the usual swinger sites and then at the last minute put an ad on Craigslist trying to fill any remaining spots.  In the end, we got six other couples to join us in our hotel suite.  As we usually do, we have everyone introduce themselves and tell the group about their interests and boundaries, then we play a little game like spin the bottle, or truth-or-dare, that gets people talking and gets them to loosen up.  It doesn't take long before someone's shirt comes off and then someone's dress.  After a little while longer, a few people are naked on the floor messing around, and then a bunch of people are naked having sex.  On this night, many of the couples didn't have full-swap sex with other couples (just some soft-swap oral) or sex with their own spouse.  A few of us did have full-swap sex though.  And we were one of those couples.  (This is Joe writing, by the way).  Of the six couples, we knew one of them from before.  We'd traveled to their city of Salt Lake in the past, and this time they came to us.  She had a baby (their first) in November, and this was their first time playing with another couple since then.  She was a little self-conscious because she hadn't lost as much baby weight as she wanted, but we assured her that no one would care.  They are the sweetest couple.  (He doesn't like to travel, so 50 miles is about his limit).  That's why they don't ever go to Vegas.  Andy is a very kind guy and a perfect gentleman.  It was amazingly hot to see Christy ride him cowgirl on the floor while he gave a "mustache ride" to his wife, and then our wives made-out face-to-face.  There's nothing more arousing than watching your wife have an orgasm.  After she orgasmed many times, she came over to me and climbed on while I laid back in a chair and then I came in her.  Then Andy's wife, Mary, invited Christy to go over and give Andy a blow job (which I photographed) and then climb back on him to have him finish in her.  Mary said to Christy that it had been Andy's fantasy to finish in Christy, so he did.

Afterward, everyone had some snacks and everyone talked (while still naked or half-dressed or wrapped in a towel).  Eventually everyone slowly left to get home to babysitters.  It was a very nice evening--not too wild, not too late; just another nice little sex party.

New Club Last Night

In the spirit of openness and completeness, I ought to say that two nights ago while laying next to my husband in bed, I said, "I want to stop swinging." And I wasn't kidding. I have had no problem with the morals of it. I was, in that moment, worried that it had occupied too much of my psyche and that of my husband. Kind of like of we were chronic knitting aficionados and all we did was do that and nothing else. I was worried that we would progress to forgetting about our kids and our budget and food and just knit/swing. My husband kindly and correctly said, OK. I knew that he was sincere, but also that he would be shocked and that we'd need to discuss it more. But he said that he loved me more than anything and that he'd do anything I wanted. In that moment, I had been having somewhat of a panic attack, and his acceptance of my decision let me feel calm and sleep. And so we did.

The next morning was just a normal morning. We said our usual prayers together, the kids went off to school and he went off to work. I really think that if we never went swinging again, we'd be fine.

But then I got to thinking how much we both enjoyed those occasions, and I realized that if we could just keep them to occasions, then there would be no problem. I do enjoy the attention and the excitement. I just don't want it to be the major theme of our lives. Even though those who read my journal entries would think that we do nothing other than swing. But understand that we don't have other hobbies: we don't hunt, we don't shop much, we don't golf or go boating or go to a lot of movies. We love being with our kids and doing family things, but that's about it. Our only other hobby is traveling to meet people and go to social events and maybe have sex with others. This next day, I changed my mind back. I wanted to keep swinging for now.

I think the reason that this came up now was because we were headed to Denver the next day to visit relatives and go to a new swinger club. Whenever we go to a club event, I get a little anxious and excited about what could happen. During sex with just the two of us, we often describe a gang-bang fantasy, but I don't know if I want that in real life. I don't like the idea of not being in control. I want to control the room and the pace and who goes and comes where. My husband and I discussed this again during our trip here to Denver. I re-explained my desires (which he already knew and accepted). So when we got to the club, we were quite excited. We'd texted with a few couples in the days prior, so we were hoping that someone would be waiting and excited to see us. We went in and paid the membership dues. Someone then came up to me and introduced himself. He was the husband of one of the couples we had been texting. We took the official tour of the club and then got a soda and went over to them. We re-introduced ourselves. I was wearing high-heels, a short dress that barely covered me, and nothing else. We sat down and talked to them for about 30 minutes and got to know everything about them: their background, how they met, their interests, etc. We talked about what we thought of the club and the people there. I purposely let it slip out at an appropriate time in the conversation that I'd be happy to "do" either of them. It was a fun and flirty conversation. Just then another couple came over and butted themselves in the conversation, so we four had to talk to them. After a few minutes, I said to all of them, but looking at the first two, "we're going to go to a play room, if anyone wants to join us." Joe and I stood up and went to the play area. It looked like our friends got trapped, so Joe and I played hard, vigorous, and loudly with each other. (I can get noisy. It's really not intentional. Joe says that it's super erotic). Just as we'd finished my 10th orgasm, the couple came in to apologize and tell us that they'd love to play with us another time. I got dressed, we hugged them goodbye, and then left. It was a great evening of great sex and making new friends. They later emailed us their phone number and told us to contact them the next time we're in town for a date.

We're now off the spend the rest of the weekend with the relatives. (They think that we went to a dinner and a movie last night. I hope they don't ask for too many details). Shhh.

Writing a Craigslist Ad

Here's quick little lesson on what I think is important when writing an ad on Craigslist when looking for other swingers.

First, don't get defensive or threatening.  Posts get flagged and removed all the time for who-knows what reason.  Don't let it get to you.  Sometimes I think that those companies who post fake ads flag the really good ads (like mine) because they don't want real competition.  Be prepared to write 2-3 similar ads and repost them when one gets flagged by another user.

An ad with a cropped photo gets tons more attention.  If you post 2-3 ads, don't use the same photo multiple ads--people will recognize that you're posting multiple times, then flag all your ads.

HWP means height and weight proportionate.  If you show photos of both of you, you don't need to state the obvious.  If you don't show photos, you should list your height and weight, you could also say how fit you are, but be honest.  We do post our real ages, but may change them by a year or two in a second ad.

DDF means drug and disease free.  I used to think, who would post anything other than this?  But then I saw someone recently post that they are both HSV positive with rare outbreaks.  I appreciated the honesty.  If condoms are must, say so.

I think the best thing is to write intelligently.  This can get hard after your tenth ad.  If it sounds rushed, desperate  and defensive ("don't flag me man!"), then who wants to date that?

In the title, we keep it simple and straight forward "Couple for Couple", or "Same-room Soft-swap on Saturday", or "This Friday Downtown Girl-on-Girl"

We like to express our desires in the ad: "we have a room at a nice hotel for Friday night, and we're looking for a couple to meet up with.  Let's meet for dinner and then assuming we all click, we'll go up to the room to play.  We enjoy same-room full-swap."

We often add that I'm bisexual and he's straight, and that we're non-smokers.  We also say that "we're up for just about anything other than pain."  (After a few emails back and forth, we may say that we have a profile on some of the swinger sites, but many couples are skiddish about being urged to go to a website--they may think it's a scam to get them to give out their credit-card information.)

Express your desire for photos.  We often say, "please send photos and we'll do the same.  No genital shots please.  Rated G are great."  I hate it when guys send photos of their penis and nothing else.  I really don't care about penis size, and I don't want to play with a couple who thinks that's their most interesting feature.

We usually conclude with a commitment to have the two women "voice verify" once we all see each others photos and interests.  There's nothing worse than spending days exchanging emails just to discover that they're not going to ever talk on the phone and meet.  Once you know you want to meet them, get on the phone with them.

As a farce, we once wrote an ad that was the epitome of junk ads and all that is bad about Craigslist.  It got a lot of responses from people who enjoyed the irony.

"We're a middle-aged couple who says that we're 21. I'm a hostile homophobic woman with short dull hair, bra size 46A, quite obese, 4'11". I gag often. My husband is an effeminate reclusive with a small penis  (see the 10 photos below), but he's in really good shape. (Round is a shape). We never shave and rarely bathe, so we keep that musky animalistic aura that we know you love. We say we do full-swap, but we'll change our minds frequently during the night.  We've had most STDs and we hate condoms, so you don't have to worry about giving us anything new. We bring drama to most encounters, and expect you to watch it when it happens. It's likely that one of us will freak out at something and storm out, and the other will get drunk and sullen and not leave without telling you about all the other bad experiences we've had. Did we mention that we can't host, and we don't have a car, so you'll have to pick us up and let us spend a night or two in your guest room until you lend us cab fare, which we'll claim to repay at our next play-date, to which we'll no-show. We can voice verify, but whenever you call, I'll be at work, so you'll only ever talk to my husband. We can send pictures, but they're not of us. Please send us photos of you so we can send them to others and claim them as our own. When you reply to this email, don't expect an intelligible response because it will only be a robot responding.  You'll then need to give me your credit card information so I can show you my fake photos on an overseas porn site.  And don't flag this ad, because I'm real."

If you're going to post on CL, you should create an email address that you can use just for this purpose.  It will get tons of spam.

Also, know that half of the responses you get to your ad will be fakes.  You'll have to learn for yourself how to know the real ones from the fakes.  Once you start replying to them, you'll learn.  The good fakes will keep you hooked for at least 2-3 exchanges.  You'll figure out that they're robots when they don't respond to your specific questions.  Some guys will just want to share photos or webcam.  Some people require that a code word be put in the subject line of any replies, but that could weed out some hot, lazy people.  We prefer to get ALL the responses and then we'll reply to those we think are real.  We respond best to those who send photos in the first reply.  We'll say, "your photo gets ours."  For the most part, we don't reply to any email unless there's a photo, especially if we put a photo in our ad.  If they send a face photo, we reply with a photo (cropped or full-face).

Typical Date

We sure are writing a lot today.  I just saw what Joe wrote while I was writing this.  It's pretty common to have a couple back out of a date a day or two before, so it's best to not put all your eggs in one basket.  We would never promise two couples that we'd meet and then cancel one of them, but it's not unheard of to tell one couple "we don't yet know if we'll be free that night, but we'd like to keep chatting with you in case we can get free and if you're still available."  That way, you don't burn a bridge with a hot couple by saying, "no thanks, we picked someone else and we're not choosing you" and then at the last minute you call them back and say, "hey, the first couple bailed on us, so are you still available?"  I mention all this because this is a copy of the email that I just wrote to our backup couple.  They asked us what we like in an evening, and I thought it worth posting here.

We kind of like meeting over dinner somewhere and getting to know each other.  It's nice for us women to talk on the phone first.  Usually by taking on the phone and reading each other's profiles, we kind of know that we have the same boundaries.  At dinner, if everyone is having fun, then we go up to the hotel room.  If at dinner, someone isn't feeling it, then we just say so, but so far it's never happened, but if it did, we wouldn't take offense.  Up in the room, we can order dessert and keep chatting.  Then we find a way to make it to the bedroom and us women undress and get cozy or we two take a bath together.  (I orgasm easily and often).  Then we invite the guys to join us on the bed and we women move back and forth between our guys--maybe I give oral to my husband while your husband does me from behind.  I have to be honest: my husband has a hard time holding back from cuming once he goes in another woman.  It only takes a couple of minutes of thrusting.  That's why he makes sure that the other woman has had as many orgasms from his mouth, fingers, toys, my mouth, my fingers, our double-ended dildo between us, and you husband's cock, before he cums in you.  We sometimes enjoy anal sex, but we've never tried it with another couple and we'd never be pushy about it.  Usually after I've come 10 times with you and your husband, and then my husband cums once with you, we sit back and relax for a few minutes and then 10 minutes later, he's ready for a final round with either you or me, and I'm always good for another 10 unless I've been contorted into a pretzel too much already.  Then everyone sort of gets dressed and chats and laughs and basks in the glow before hugging good night.

Joe here.  A couple of days ago, she and I had talked about setting up a date.  We posted an ad and watched the replies roll in.  In our opinion, there's a good way and a bad way to write a swinger ad.  But the best thing is to include photos, cropped photos, and don't show your crotch.  Any way, we'd had a good deal of responses to our ad, and we'd been chatting online with a few of these couples.  Then just about an hour ago, we got an email from the first couple who we'd full-swapped with in July 2011 (see the post below).  They saw our ad on Craigslist and wanted to know if we wanted to play with them.  We did have a great time with them the first time because it was the first time for us.  But Christy felt a little jealous about the way that I was touching the other woman's knee after I had sex with her.  Christy wasn't jealous about me having had sex with her, but with the way I touched her knee.  Weird, but I understood.  So we didn't really try to play with them again.  And when I got the email today, I was just going to ignore it.  But I just mentioned it to Christy, just now and then went on to mention some other people who had also emailed us.  I then got called to the backyard by the kids.  Just a moment later, I got a text from Christy which says, 

"I have been thinking about it and decided we should play with ______ and ______.  It's hot that they want us this much and kind of cute that she has a crush on you.  It's making me wet to think about; as long as I'm the alpha!!"

Of course, I quickly wrote them back and we set it up!

Black Friday

I refuse to go out shopping today.  It's so much better to sit home and find all the deals on Amazon online.  Yesterday was a lot of fun with all the relatives over at my house cooking together, and the one relative who was dressed most like a skank was not me!  I'm so deep in the closet, no one would ever guess.

The other reason why it's good for me to be at the computer is that I can cruise the swinger websites: Kasidie, SDC, Swingular, and Craigslist (I don't like SLS--they're HUGE, but I just can navigate their messy site).  We're looking for a date.  Now that we've being doing this for a while, we've gotten a bit picky.  We won't just jump into the sack with anyone.  It's not that we're looking for a super hot couple, cause heaven knows that's not us either.  But we would like some nice.  I don't like facial hair, and they have to not look like snobs, and they shouldn't be super old.  And best of all, they have to be able to communicate.  I hate getting those emails from the guy that says "We r  at hilton  till 8 4 and  find us  Shes tight  IM huge!!"  That's actually an email that I got after I answered a Craigslist ad.  Needless to say, I neither understood it nor responded, even though he was smoking hot!!  I actually am turned on by a guy's brain and kindness.

Anyway, in addition to thinking about us getting naked on a bed with another couple and doing it every which way, it's time to start planning the Christmas holiday.  I've got to think about getting the guest room ready (again) for the next round of visitors, and deciding if we're going to take everyone to Soldier's Hollow for sledding or maybe somewhere else for snowmobiling.

If you've never seen this video about swinging, it's great:

Becoming a Swinger

Getting the Itch

We've been to a few parties over the past year, but we haven't really had a nice little hook-up with another couple in a while.  We're setting aside a date in the near future so we can see about arranging a date with another couple.  We've got our profile on all the good swinger sites, but it seems like we just see the same local profiles on there over and over and don't get much action there.  Even though it sounds cheap, Craigslist really is the way to go for finding another couple.  You've just got to be able to wade through the robots and make sure you're talking to a real person.  It took us a good year to figure out how to make Craigslist work for us.  I ought to teach a class on that.  Once you know the techniques, it just takes a lot of quick emails and sifting through everybody.  But once you do your homework, then it's just narrowing them down.  Reminds me of the finding pool, the teaching pool, and then the conversion pool.  We've already got four good couples in the pool tonight after just a few hours of trying while watching TV.  

Just Keeps Topping the Last One

Just driving back home from an amazing weekend in Las Vegas.  We had a wonderful swinger weekend in the Grand Lakeview suite of the Bellagio hotel.  There were about 20 of us who ended up having an orgy. I’ll never forget the song “Lights” by Ellie Goulding.  Two of the women at the party were also professional strippers.  One of them gave the most erotic lap dance to that song.  It was amazing because it was real.  She really was feeling it.  And then she made out with me.  So HOT!!  Before the evening was over, I’d ridden the cocks of two guys and watched my husband screw a woman and then get blown (and swallowed) by her.  There were a lot more details, but that’s the summary.  I don’t know how we could ever top something like that.

Chilaxing

Someone recently emailed me saying that he missed my updates on my blog.  No one should mistake a temporary absence for a complete disappearance.  We're still here doing our thing.  As of late, "our thing" has been working, raising kids, cleaning house, serving in the Church and serving our neighbors, getting ready for back-to-school, car repair, and all the other basic things that everyone else does.  Some people we know who swing* seem to do it every weekend or two.  That's not us.  We have kids and things that are more important, so we only play when we've planned for it far in advance.  But don't worry, there will be more to write about in the future.  We have things planned.

*Despite the name of this blog, we don't like to think of ourselves as "swingers".  We "swing" or "play with others" - just like all people who bowl are not bowlers.

Sex Party in a New City

Wow!  Had an amazing weekend!  We tried out a new city.  We took the drive to a major metropolitan area west of here that is much more happening than Happy Valley.  Over the years we've met some great people from various locations and they invited us to come to their city to have an event.  We hosted this one.  It was about 20 people in a hotel room sitting around and chatting and getting to know one another.  The women started getting frisky with one another and pulling out sex toys.  Then the guys were invited to jump in and play.  By the end of the evening there was a mass of naked people in the middle of the room having sex with whomever!  It was a classic orgy!  By the end of the evening, there were condom wrappers everywhere!  Absolutely amazing.  And there were a lot of photos taken.  Too bad that I can't show them on here.  Where else can you have sex with someone and then afterward say, "please remind me your name."  As always, everyone was very polite and gracious.  No one was pushy or coercive at all.  At the end of the evening, the clothes went back on, we all hugged and kissed goodbye and that was it.  We departed feeling very rejuvenated.

Yet Another Swinger Party!

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Lori's Story (Part 2)

For those who have been waiting for the rest of Lori's story, here it is.  She just emailed it to me.  See below for part 1.

I thought that I could just have a boyfriend to keep my exhusband at bay.  A boyfriend like I used to have in college.  Go out, date, maybe a good night kiss.  But I quickly found out they didn't exist.  For the year I was going through my divorce, I wasn't allowed to attend any LDS Singles events.  I was even booted off one of the online dating sites because I was honest and said my divorce wasn't finished yet.  I made some good LDS friends online, but they were all too far away to date.

But I quickly found out that non-LDS guys wanted more than a kiss goodnight.  And my resistance was soooo  low.  One thing would lead to another, and even if we stopped short of actual sex, I was still hating myself after.  I would drop that guy and try to find another, with the same results.  Even when I decided I could live with that, the guy wouldn't understand where it needed to stop, and we would end up going all the way.

I went to my bishop, and explained I kept trying, and falling, and just couldn't win this addiction.  I was put on probation.  I was told he was giving me time to get it together.  And that is where things stayed.

I finally was officially divorced and started attending singles events.  But this really didn't help. Single Adult guys are remarkably evasive.  Especially to a newly divorced woman with kids that needed a husband.  Not even casual dates materialized.   At least not with anyone I felt safe with.  The only good way out would have been to get married again to the first guy that came along, and believe me, I had many chances, but I just couldn't be with someone who was not right for me or my kids.  But I was so lonely.  I didn't want to fall back into that trap with one night stands.  Eventually I settled with one guy, a non-member, but a Friend with Benefits.  Someone who I could be with when things got really bad.  But someone who had other girls he was seeing and did not want a committment from me.  This left me free to live my own life.  Attend church and singles activities, accept any dates that came up, and not be tied down.

This went on for a while.  But occasionally my friend would try a relationship, and I was not one to cheat with him, even if those promises meant nothing to him.  If the girlfriend lasted long enough, I would end up getting in trouble again.  I didn't want that, so I started looking for other options.

Along this time, I also read "The Sin 'Next to Murder' " https://www.sunstonemagazine.com/pdf/143-34-43.pdf I had been wondering how I could be such a bad person, but still be recieving all this inspiration from the Lord regarding jobs he had for me in the singles program. I realized I was not a bad person, God still loved me, and understood. I began to realize that adultery and fornication really were two different things, and the one was not nearly as serious. I still tried to be as good as possible, but felt I could stay active in the church without feeling condemned.  I didn't want to fall away from the church, but I did realize that just because one man thought something and taught it as doctrine, didn't mean it came from Heavenly Father.  I was  supposed to ponder and pray and decide on my own.  I pretty much decided when in doubt, I would go back to what Joseph Smith taught.  And he did say that there were many things of this world that he couldn't tell us yet, that would cause us to fall away from the church.  I think this is because so many people brought what they believed from their own churches into ours, that if we differed too radically, they couldn't believe it.

At this time I really started looking at polygamy.  I was starting to understand it.  After all, I had a sudo-boyfriend that I couldn't be jealous of, even caring for him like I did.  I was finally understanding how a woman could allow her husband to have more than one wife.  I was also seeing that if a woman and man (Mary and John) had children under the temple covenant, and then John died, and this happened with another sealed family (Susan and Steve) and then Susan died, and then Mary and Steve got married (sealed) and had kids this could cause problems in the next life. After all, Mary and Steve still loved their first spouse.  But if the couples could accept polygamy and share, Mary could be with both John and Steve, and John could be with both Susan and Mary, and everyone could be happy.  Radical thinking, I know.  Not something most Mormons like to imagine.

I had never gotten along with the girls in my high school.  And only made a few girl friends once I was married (having given up all my guy friends at that time like a good wife).  So girls still terrified me in some ways.  I wanted to overcome that.  The scriptures told us we needed to be able to accept that "new and everlasting covenant" (i.e. polygamy) in order to make it to the celestial kingdom.  Not live it necessarily, but at least understand and accept it.  How in the world was one supposed to do that?

I decided that I should try it.  Find a woman who was willing to share her man, and discover what it was all about.  I can't remember now exactly how it came about, but I began talking to couples who were looking for that "unicorn".  The single woman to join them.  But it solved my problem.  They didn't want someone who would destroy their relationship.  I was free to live my own life and leave if I found someone with whom I wanted a relationship.  To me, I had to care for them, it had to mean something, too.  The whole point was I didn't want one night stands.  Eventually I found a man who was not controlling, and his committed partner who was active in her church and easy to get along with.  Not being married, I didn't even have to question if it was adultery or not.  She even had LDS swinger friends.   We hit it off.  I remember the first night, we had a nice dinner at their house, and took time to get to know each other.  I ended up staying.  When we began, she asked what I wanted to do, and I said, "No offense, (to the man), but I know I am ok with guys, I need to see if I can do this with a woman too."  And she said, "No problem" and leaned forward to kiss me.  It was just like kissing a guy.  I was not attracted really to either of them, but I enjoyed our times together.  There was no stress, no jealousy, just enjoyment, love, and pleasure.  They are happy for me when I am in a relationship, we will always be friends.  I imagine when it is the way it is supposed to be, this is the way polygamy should be.

........

It was very hard for me at one time to understand why the Lord would tell me to marry someone knowing I would end up in divorce.  I almost went inactive then, and obviously almost did several times since.  But I have always remained faithful and tried to make the best choice that was available to me.  The lesser of two evils, so to speak.  I don't feel that the Lord has penalized me for any of my choices.  I continued to work as hard as I could following the inspiration he was sending me, and I have made tremendous advances that have helped many singles in the church.  But I felt all along that he was preparing me for something else.  I told him I didn't want that first trial again, that he needed to find something else for me.  This time I wanted to marry someone I really LOVE, not just the person He picked for me, that I needed to help.

Right now, I am in a relationship with a wonderful LDS guy I have had a crush on for a long time.  I just told him my story.  And he told me his.  He is Bi-Sexual.  And struggled all his life with the Church's teachings and the prejudice that exists against him.  It is my turn to help him.  Everything I have gone through in my life has prepared me to be a support for him.  The Lord knew what he was doing this entire time, and even though I couldn't see it in these Middle Moments, all will work out in the end if we will just listen and obey those promptings, even the ones no one else can understand.

I don't know if this is the end of my story, but maybe it is a new beginning.

Nasty Sex Club

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Last night

I'm laying naked in a bed next to my wife. Last night we had sex with a new couple. We each had rooms at the Salt Lake Grand America. We first had dinner with them at the hotel restaurant. He owns a construction company. She's runs an art studio. They are in their late 20's. (The couple that we didn't play with the night before was barely 21). This new couple, "Drew" and "Darcy" have been swinging for the past two years. At dinner we shares stories. Neither of us had had any drama with swinging. We shared stories about the parties we'd been to and the secrets we keep from people at work. We talked about how we met and our kids. Usually stuff.

Then we headed up to their room. A very nice room with a separate foyer. We ordered dessert. They offered us drinks, we explained that we don't drink, so I just took a coke.

They showed us photos of their new home and all the woodwork he did. I could tell that Christy thought he was attractive. Usually she's into the other girl more, but tonight she was into him more. He wasn't suave, but was rugged. She was very friendly and sweet. Eventually Christy pulled out the sex toys and showed then what we brought. There's sometimes some awkwardness trying to figure out how to move the conversation from "tell me about your job" to "I'd like to have sex with your wife." Christy showed them this good lube that we have and said that it's good for a massage. We all agreed to move to the bedroom. The women got naked and the guys undressed to their shorts. (We prepared by not wearing our garments to dinner - just secular/sporting underwear). Once the women were naked and face down, we swapped partners and gave the other woman a long back massage. This was our first experience that didn't start with girl-girl play. After a while, we swapped spots so the girls could give us a massage. Everyone was talking and having a good time. Very friendly.

After five minutes of that, I sat up and asked Darcy if I could kiss her. She said yes, so I did. Christy and Drew were doing the same thing. Then we went at it, all the usual stuff: kissing, sucking on her clit, fingering her, playing with her tits. I love looking over at my smoking hot wife and seeing the very sensuous look on her face as she's getting aroused. She looks like a porn star. And the way she moans is so hot. I was then laying back getting a blow-job. Darcy was good at that, but she was better at kissing. She has a very aggressive tongue. It was so hot to see my wife deep-throat Drew. Darcy told me that I could go inside. I got a condom on and so did Drew. He also had a vibrating cock ring on that Christy had brought. He'd never used one before. You have no idea how hot it is to see some other guy's cock enter your wife's pussy. Her legs were bent up to near her ears and he was in the push- up position just slowly sliding in and out of her. She moaned and purred. Meanwhile, I was doing the same thing to Darcy. It was so hard to not cum immediately after penetrating her. I tried to hold off. Prior to this, I had given her an orgasm with a vibrator and my fingers. I started thrusting and I knew that I couldn't hold back. So I let it go. It was so good. I stayed hard for a few minutes afterward so I kept pounding her. Eventually I pulled out and went to the bathroom to removed the condom and wipe off. When I returned to the bedroom, Drew had Christy sideways on the bed with him standing next to the bed entering her. He would reach down and push the vibrating cock ring against her clit and make her cum over and over. He asked if it was too much for her. She said no, that it was good. He pounded her for another five minutes. Eventually she said that she needed to take a break now that she'd had 20 orgasms. I suggested that Drew do his wife while Christy and I took a break. He entered his wife doggy style. Very hot.

We then got dressed a bit and sat and talked with them. Christy and Darcy arranged to have lunch together sometime. We offered to let them keep the bottle of lube. They talked about heading out on the town at this point. We told then that we were "too old" and that we preferred bed. (It was 1 am at this point). We gave a round of hugs and handshakes. Then we headed out the door and to our room.

In our room, just the two of us, we recounted the best parts of the encounter and it got us turned on again, so I jacked off onto Christy while she did herself with a vibrator.

Laying here now, I want Christy to text them to see if Drew wants to come to our room and keep pounding her brains out. But she's still tired. So it will just have to remain a fantastic memory.

Green Eyed Monster

We had a date with a couple set up for tonight. It was with a couple we have played with once before. They are attractive and nice. We had a great time with them the last (and only other) time we played.

We'd prepared for this night at least a month in advance. We got dressed up, but 30 minutes before we were scheduled to meet them at the restaurant I got a funny feeling. I had not been super excited to play with them again, but I didn't tell Joe and I didn't know why. But now I knew why. I was feeling jealous. I recalled that at our first date with them, she was very into my husband. She is much younger and is flirty. Joe liked it. But I remember feeling a bit of jealousy. So, before we headed out the door tonight to meet them, I told my husband that we could meet them for dinner, but that I didn't want us (specifically him) to have sex with them. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to watch it without feeling jealous. And I worried that she would attach to him too much and that Joe, being a man, wouldn't be able to resist her if she ever tried to pull him away.

I appreciate that Joe let me decide that for us. He assured me that it wouldn't happen and that I had nothing to worry about, but he loves me enough and respects me enough to just go along with my requests even if they don't make complete sense to him and even if they're at the last minute.

So we went to dinner with them and let then know that we were happy to treat them to the meal, but that we'd have to cut out afterward. We had a pleasant meal. We talked about swinging, our kids, their travels, etc. They were a little dissapointed that they wouldn't get to have sex with us. They even asked if they could take Joe alone even if I wasn't going to play. Joe said that he was flattered, but that we don't play alone.

So we came back home and the two of us had great sex like we've never had before, then we laid in bed and watched a movie.

We have a date with another couple tomorrow night. This will be our first time with them. I don't expect any of the same issues. But we never know what to expect. That's part of the fun and it's always an adventure.

Unwelcome Visitor

Just for fun, I was googling "Mormon Swingers".  Of course, my blog and links to my blog came up.  This link also came up: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a30576385/?cpg=-1#c2368158940

It's a forum composed of Mormon mommies who during November and December of this year, have been chatting in their forum about swingers, with references to my blog.  They've been doing this for 16 pages.  I thought it would be interesting to drop in and say hi.  As soon as I did, my post got deleted by the moderator.  I posted again, and it got deleted.  She said that I was disruptive to the community.  Then the forum got locked so no one could post.

I feel like the young hussy walking into a hair dressers in a backwoods salon.  All the regulars are there gossiping about the floozy in town.  As soon as I try to be nice, the one under the dryer says, "Well, I never!" and they all pull their magazines to their face.  I know when I'm not wanted.

Christmas Eve

I'm sitting in the car in the driveway after delivering Christmas gifts to families from Church. We also took the kids to visit an elderly sister who's in the hospital. Unfortunately, she'll be there through Christmas. I'm now listening to David Sedaris read his "Santa-land Diaries". It's awesome. If you haven't heard it, you must!

Found Another Couple of Wild Mormons!

I got this today via email.  We've been chatting all day, and I've learned so much about her.  We are very alike.  We've even divulged more of our identities to each other--"golden handcuffs"--to prove ourselves to each other. Here's Veronica's story.

Hello, I just discovered your blog, and I am in shock at the similarities to our lives. I am an active LDS woman with several kids living in a non-LDS part of the US. My husband and I met in college, and we've been married for 17 years. Ups and downs throughout our marriage, but the past year has been AMAZING....and this past year is VERY similar to your 2009 and 2010 posts.

I had always had a little bit of "bi" curiosity....wondering what a woman's nipple would feel like on my tongue, how a breast would feel in my hand, etc...but never dreamed I'd act on it. My husband is a great husband, father and provider, but was less "devout" than me about church. He was always active, performed his callings, hit-and-miss on home teaching, and just "liked" being LDS. He was exposed to porn as a teen and looked at it regularly in his younger years. He looked at it a couple times in our early marriage, and as an insecure woman, I FREAKED, threatened to leave him, etc. (Wow, thinking back, I can't believe how I acted...) I met him my freshman year of college, during his senior year at a small regional university.

About a year ago, we were having some stress in our marriage and decided we were going to get away for a long weekend - no kids, just us - 4 days together in Vegas. On the flight there, he suggested seeing an erotic revue, a topless show or something. I was intrigued, but said that I wouldn't be able to relax and enjoy myself. I hinted that maybe some alcoholic beverages (I'd only tasted a couple times in my life before I was baptized) might help me lose enough inhibitions... I thought he would freak that I suggested it ... Instead, he acted like it was no big deal. He said "fine by me" and called the flight attendant over. He asked what I liked those times I'd drank in college. I got some vodka and orange juice. We decided this would be a "one time stays-in-Vegas" event. (the alcohol.)

With the alcohol, the sex was SO MUCH MORE FUN!!!! I orgasm so much with it, and my husband describes me as being "in a ditch" without it. He describes having to "rock the car out of the ditch" - that it takes lots and lots of foreplay before I really get into sex. I totally understand why the church teaches against it, because it truly influenced me to do things that I would not have done otherwise. My husband and I came to an agreement........that alcohol was dangerous, that the church was wise to tell us to avoid it, but that we could keep it safe by agreeing that I would only drink in his presence, and it was only as a "sexual tool", almost like my Viagra for women. It relaxes me so much, that I want LOTS and LOTS of sex.

It looks like you have not included alcohol, but for us, we feel it is okay, when it is used "medicinally" ;) Sort of like we'd have no problem with a man taking Viagra as he got older. (Yeah, justifications.....but we all make them for what we like to do.)

So, back to my story... We went to a show in Vegas called Fantasy at the Luxor. It really piqued my interest. The women were beautiful, and I really liked the show and was surprised just how many other women were there watching. (no single women, but lots of couples and single men.) As we were leaving the show, I suggested that we go check out a Vegas strip club. I figured, we're being wild on this one weekend - if not now, when? He wasted no time at all getting a taxi to take us to Sapphire. He had gone to strip clubs a few times in college and hadn't ever expected to get me to go (remembering my previous porn freakouts).

Holy heck! I had no idea. I had no idea that lap dances had so much grinding..... I had always thought there was distance between the patron and dancers, uh, no!!! He told me later he was very nervous that things were "going to go off the rails". He refused lap dances, kept ordering the alcohol for me while he drank Diet Coke, etc. (He has never drunk alcohol BTW.) A couple girls offered dances, but it wasn't until about 3 drinks, that I lost enough inhibitions to enjoy a lap-dance....and enjoy it I did.

I too discovered that I had a HUGE ENJOYMENT of exhibitionism. I had some ridiculously "high-mileage" lap dances that probably should have been in the VIP room. The men all around were REALLY enjoying the show. The girls would give me a dance, then all the men would want a dance from her.....good for business, and the bouncers watched and never stopped anything. I had multiple orgasms right out there in front of all those people! I ended up getting dances for a couple hours and my husband LOVED IT!!!!!!! We went back to our hotel room and had some of the best sex we'd had in a long time.

Turns out that night woke the bi-sexual beast inside me!!!! :) We decided that maybe we would get away once every year or so to Vegas, and this would be our "Vegas secret".

So anyway, we came back home, but I couldn't stop thinking about women....and I wanted more - I wanted to go further. We started going to strip clubs. At first we went to some of the surrounding cities, then we started going locally....and my interest grew and grew and grew. We've probably visited 10 strip clubs in the last year. Each time it was a similar scene - I would get the dances, my husband would have a great time watching, but he wouldn't participate.

I think he was worried that he would "break" this new phase. He told me later that he was super excited to have gotten this far.  He didn't press for any more, just enjoyed watching girls dance for me. Eventually, I convinced him to get lap dances and that I wouldn't be jealous. It surprised me that I LOVED seeing it.

I kept wanting more. I wanted to actually make out with a woman - kiss her, feel her body. If anything visits to the strip clubs could be a little frustrating in that regards. We talked about getting an escort, but my fear of possibly being arrested wiped that idea right out of my mind! (I could just imaging having my name appear in a Google search by our children 5 years from now).

That all changed when we found out that prostitution is not illegal in Canada!!!!!!! Pimping and brothels are illegal. "Street walkers" are illegal. But escorts - both in-call and out-call are fully legal. They're allowed to advertise on the internet....and making visits to your hotel room is not illegal AT ALL!!! I was intrigued. ;)

We ordered passports and started planning (and fantasizing). To not give away our location at this point, I'll just say it was within driving distance to Montreal. I tell you, the larger cities in Canada are like an adult DISNEY LAND!!!! Holy crap.. - beautiful women - lots of them! And it was only $250 - $500 an hour for classy, well reviewed escorts. WOW. OH MY GOSH!!

This weekend was everything I fantasized about...but better. i hadn't imagined that it would be so guilt and jealousy-free. Amazing threesomes. We saw three amazing ladies that weekend. (This was just a few weeks ago.)

I was SO CONCERNED that seeing my husband touching another woman would cause me some serious issues. My husband closely observed me to make sure I was okay the whole time, and instead of being bothered by it, it just made me FREAKING HORNY to see him doing the things to these beautiful women that he does to me. I had a FABULOUS TIME!!! I just can't get enough. Our sexual passion has just grown all the more after this weekend. I can't wait to experience it all again.

We aren't sure if we are going to jump to full swinging stuff or not....but it's been an amazing journey thus far. Our marriage is better than ever....and my husband can't keep his hands off me. I am just floored seeing that there is a similar couple out there with the same religious values who have had the same experiences.

Veronica

Another Great Swinging Experience Last Night

The Scene the Morning After

Last night was probably (definitely) our best swinging experience so far.  Having played with a few couples in the past, we were less anxious and concerned about the details of what may or may not happen.  Also, we’d gotten to know this couple pretty well from a party we attended a couple of months ago and I, just by happenstance, sat next to them on the flight out of Vegas.  Over the last few weeks, she and I had been texting one another occasionally to set up this date.  This is the first play-date that I, not Joe, have been more in charge of.  He loved that I took the lead and it made me feel more in control.  Melanie is really hot and so is her husband.  We got the hotel room and a connecting room.  They knocked on the door and we let them in.  It’s a little awkward (and exciting) to welcome and hug someone who you KNOW you’re going to be having sex with in a few hours.  They came in and sat down and we just talked and talked for at least an hour.  It was great conversation, just like with any other couple.  We talked about kids, and family, and work, and sex, and swinging, and people we know.  In the past, with our first few couples, it’s been a little awkward wondering how we’ll make that transition from chatting on the couch to “OK, let’s have sex now”.  But this time we didn’t put pressure on ourselves.  We just talked and talked until Melanie said, “Let’s go look at the toys in the bedroom.”  So, we did. 

We girls laid on the bed side by side and the guys sat on a bench at the foot of the bed.  We looked at the sex toys and talked about experiences with them.  She and I got closer and rubbed arms and then we just started making out.  Our husbands sat and watched.  It was very hot and not awkward at all.  Of this time, Joe later commented that there should be a name for that period when the two girls are making out and before the guys are invited in.  All the blood flows out of their brain and they just stare.  What brain function they do have left is wavering between “I want to watch this forever” and “I want to get in there too.”   She and I undressed each other, and kissed and licked, and made out.  She gave me oral sex—very well I must say.  She was really, really good. Then it was my turn to do her.  She wanted me to use a toy on her, so I did.  She squired and moaned and grabbed on anyone within reach.  When she was done, she invited the guys in.  In the past, each girl has made out with her own husband for a bit, but Melanie asked if she could play with Joe right away.  Joe didn’t mind at all.  Everyone got naked on the bed.  Ben and I made out and kissed and licked everything.  I gave him oral sex and used all the techniques I knew.  Yes, I can deep throat.  He fingered me and Joe fingered Melanie.  We women had a lot of orgasms.  Joe got a good blowjob from Melanie.  To this point, both guys were holding off on cumming.  Melanie got on her hands and knees and kissed me while Ben played with my pussy with his mouth and hands.  I came so many times.  Joe fingered Melanie deep and hard from behind.  She had told me before that she likes it a bit rough, so Joe used a few fingers and pounded her hard.  She kneeled up and he used one arm to hold her up while the other was in her pussy.  She came very hard.  It was great to watch my husband do that to her.

Then she said to Joe, “get a condom”.  I told Ben the same thing.  We let the guys pick the position.  Joe and Melanie picked “missionary”.  Ben had me on my back with my knees up to my chest.  Then both us woman got our pussies fucked (sorry for swearing) by men who weren’t our husband.  After just a few minutes, Joe told Melanie that he felt like he was going to cum.  (Earlier she’s told us that the guy the previous night never did get done, so she’s worried that it was he fault.  [Intellectually we women know that it’s not our fault, but we still worry].  Joe didn’t want her to “fail” again.)  She smiled and said, “go for it.”  So he did.  After he did, they smiled at each other, then he pulled out and removed his condom and dumped it in the trash and wiped off.  Ben kept pounding and thrusting in me.  He changed positions to the side of the bed with him standing and with me in various positions.  It was so good that it hurt.  When it became too intense for me, he slowed his thrusting.  He was very good.  Joe caressed Melanie and she wanted to play with a vibrator.  I helped her have another orgasm with it.  We then paused for a while to talk about our dogs and whatever.  We all just sat on the bed, naked, tired, hot, and comfy.  We really thought that we were done for the night, but Joe got an erection again and he and Melanie started touching each other again.  I offered to finish Ben off, so he sat in bed against the headboard and I went down on him.  After a few minutes, I suggested that we swap back to our own spouses so the guys could get done without a condom.  Joe rode me missionary style and came in me.  Melanie and Ben were going at it next to us.  Joe and I had a simultaneous orgasm.  (We do that frequently).  He leaned in and kissed me and told me how beautiful I am and how much he loved me. 

Everyone got up and put on a robe or pants, had a few bites of snacks, then we chatted for a few more minutes about how they’ll have to get up early.  So we hugged them goodnight and we went into our separate room.   When we woke up in the morning, as planned, they had already gone, but they left us a nice text.  We exchanged a few texts today telling them how much we appreciated them and the experience.

Then we drove to Church.  Church was good too.

Texting a Date

We’ve been wanting to play with a couple next weekend.  One of the couples what we met on our last Vegas trip doesn’t live far from us.  In fact, we were on the same plane home from our last Vegas trip and I sat next to her.  Anyway, we didn’t think we’d get to play with them next weekend because they have a Christmas party, but here’s what she texted me today.

Melanie: We have an option for next Saturday night if you are open to a compromise.  It’s not ideal, but can make it up to you next time.  We could leave our Christmas party at 10 pm and meet up with you guys wherever.  You mentioned downtown, so would be about 10:30 pm at the latest.  If we set a time to meet, promise we will be there at that time…we are very respectful of other people’s opportunities to go out.

Christy: That sounds good to me, let me run it by [Joe] and get back to you!  I get giddy thinking of it.  Christy

(later)

Christy: Let’s go for it.  As long as you are sure that we aren’t taking you away from your vanilla party! We don’t want to be party crashers. 

Melanie: Yea!!  Tell Joe that I will make it so worthwhile.  Muh…I want you. We can still make appearances and visit and then go out and play.  Plus we have a built-in sitter so we can stay out all night.

Christy: Yea!!  I’ll book the hotel right now! I can’t wait. Tell your husband the same thing.  Mmmm. I’m wet thinking of it.

Melanie: You and me both Hon.  Just let me know where you want to meet up at. We will be fairly casual for this party. ..jeans/nice tops kind of thing.

Christy: Sounds good. I don’t plan on the clothes staying on for long. J

Melanie: That would be why I like you so much!

(later)

Christy: I got the four of us the two-bedroom presidential suite (our treat) at the [hotel] in the downtown area for Saturday, December 10^th.  Plan on working up an appetite since it includes breakfast. Kisses.

Melanie: Wow! So I guess that means we really have to put out, huh?

Christy: That means that we really want you bad!

Melanie: You realize that I am so hot for you, I would take you in the back of a car if I had to.  Just saying . . .

Christy: Oh, I feel the same.  I plan on being naked in the tub waiting for you!  I’ll do you in the car in Vegas when we meet in February.  We can invite Stacy to join us.

Melanie: Nice! I like my women wet.  That would be fun . . .one thing I have not gotten to do, more than two of us females.

Christy: Me neither! J  Let’s plan on it.  It will get the guys all stiff and ready to go watching us . . . Ooo I just realized that I get to play with two bald men in Vegas!!!  What a weekend!!! I get to warm up this month with your husband and you and then look forward to more in February.  All though, I may not be able to wait that long! We may be setting up another date with you guys in January.

Melanie: They would love that.  My husband adores watching me.  I’m a fan of Randy as well….big fan.  Made me laugh when first met them, didn’t realize how much he looked like my husband.  I was like “I’m strangely attracted to you!”  I think [Joe] is very attractive as well and look forward to teasing him too.

Christy: [Joe] will love playing with you too.  I’ve got to get to bed, but I’ll be having hot dreams now.

I'll let you know how the date turns out.

The Latest Event

Well, back from another adventure. While in the big city, we hosted a fun little hotel suite event. The first night we met some friends and went to a dance club where a D-list celebrity was celebrating his birthday. We then piled into a SUV limo and then went from strip club to strip club and then ended up at a sex club where two hookers were getting pounded by men twice as old as them.   One was there with three guys who seemed to have dropped out of a sitcom. One was a little Asian man doing back-arches on a sex-saddle while watching the hooker give a stripper-pole lesson to a mentally challenged Hispanic man, while the old sugar daddy sat back and watched it all.  We and our friends tried to find a secluded place in the club to play, but we got followed and watched.  We got naked and played, but couldn't help laughing.  We tried to laugh quietly while a guy stood outside the bead "curtains" and masturbated through his pants while watching us.

The next night we had our little hotel suite event.  In total, it was about 17 couples who joined in.  We even had two LDS couples, but we think we scared off one of them before we even got up to the room (or maybe we were too old for them).  Most of the others we have known on and off again for the past few years.  Some were brand new to us.  I won't go into the details, but it took very little time before most everyone was undressed to some degree and sitting on someone else's lap.  There were three-ways and four-ways and everything else.  Lots of girls-on girls and strap-ons and toys.  It was so much fun!  There were also some newer couples there who were a bit shy.  No one pushed them at all.  One of them later said that this was the first swinger event they ever attended where no one tried to push them into anything.  In the end, they got naked and played with each other and did a little soft playing with other couples.  One very new woman even got her fantasy of having five women playing with her at the same time.  She didn't want any guys involved, and everyone was very respectful.

All in all, it was a very fun time.  Condoms were used, almost everyone had sex with someone else.  It was very free and liberating.  Very non-judgemental.  Definitely something we'll do again.

Hometown Swinging

We'll we've tried playing closer to home.  It hasn't work out all that well.  Even though there are many couples in our local area who are interested in playing, there are issues.  One issue is hosting.  Couples state that either they can host at their home or not.  We never plan on hosting at our home.  We have kids.  That's that.  And we don't want people knowing our last names or where we live.  Doesn't seem safe -- just in case.  We also don't like the idea of going to someone else's home, at least not at first.  What if they're criminals or worse: messy!  So we've always played at a hotel.  We pay for the room, always.

The advantage of playing closer to home is obvious: less travel and more flexibility.  But that's also the disadvantage.  It means that it's easier for us to back out if we need to.  And this has happened twice in the last two weeks.  We had something set up for a night and we got a hotel arranged.  But then one of our kids got sick, so we had to reschedule for the following week.  Next week, the same thing.  (We wouldn't dare ask that couple for a third chance and if we were them, we probably wouldn't give someone a third chance.  And it's likely that they think that we're lying about having a sick kid).

When we travel out of the area, we leave our kids in the care of someone responsible and we're too far away to rush back for the sniffles.  Being far away also takes us mentally out of the picture and give us time to mentally separate from the worries of the home.  It doesn't work well to leave home at 6 pm with the dogs messing up the yard, the kids working on homework, the visiting teachers just having left brownies on the doorstep, and then be having sex with another couple two hours later.  Not enough time to set the mood.

The other problem with playing so close to home is that it could occur more frequently.  Some may say, "that's great!", but if it becomes an every weekend thing then it takes some of the exciting buildup out of it, and it becomes routine.

We've also discussed the issue about becoming friends with the other couple.  We don't mind become FriendsWithBenefits, but we are more interested in the benefits part than the true friendship.  Concerned about what could happen if the friendship became too strong and affections began to be shared.  Then an affair could happen.  (We've had some friends in the lifestyle who we've soft-swapped with a little, but it wasn't anything to write home about.  We weren't really into them.  So we like them more as friends now rather than play-partners).  I think at most, we'd like the friendship to be no more than 30% of the relationship and sex to be the other 70%.  Any more than 30% friendship is too risky, and anything less than 10% means there's no way to have a conversation - just sex.  We like the sex, but we've at least got to be able to enjoy a dinner with them.

So, it's hard to give up the idea of finding easy couples in the local area to hook-up with more easily and more regularly, but I think we're going to have to give up that idea and just keep doing the travel thing until the kids are grown.

Quickie at the sex club.

Just went to the local sex club for a quickie with each other. We had a great time, just the two of us. On the way home I had to pee so bad. I had my husband pull over and since I had no underwear on, I took off my shoes and stood on the side of the road and peed on the ground. Good thing I had wipies in the car.

Second Full-Swap

I can only imagine what you're thinking.  The first was just two nights ago, and now another one?  We'll it was sort of planned that way.  I'm going to have my husband tell this one.

Hi, Joe here.  I'm not sure what I'm supposed to say.  Still very tired from being up until 2:30 last night.  It's only 9:00 a.m. Oh, and we had sex with another couple last night.  We met them online and talked a lot before meeting.  They were older than the couple two nights ago, but they were still younger than us.  He was built and buff and HUGE compared to me.  They were both very nice.  Had a nice dinner.  Talked openly at the table about swinging.  My wife wore a great strappy dress with no panties.  We took the risk that no one would recognize us.  I think the waiter kept hearing snippits of our conversation and had an idea of what we were planning.  The other couple told us that we were the most normal ones they'd met.  Turns out they do this regularly and that they have a girl they play with routinely.  They even tried out polyamoury at least once.  The guy was very good looking so he had no problem attracting women and couples to bring home to his sexually insatiable wife.  They told us that they were into separate room play; I said that we hadn't done that yet and they respected that.

After dessert, we came back here.  It's always a bit awkward for us on how to make the transition from good conversation to good sex.  I usually let the women do it, but as I guy, I'm anxious to get it going.  Eventually, that pause came in the conversation and one of the women said, I'm going to change into something else.  So the women changed into their nighties and then went to the bed.  Diana had rarely used toys, so Christy laid her back on the bed and started working a toy against her panties and the around her panties.  She kissed her nipples and her mouth and put the toy inside her and kept going until she had a quiet little orgasm.

The women then got fully undressed and we guys got down to our skivvies.  Something about it felt a bit more socially awkward than other times.  Just couldn't read them as well.  They'd done this a lot and we hadn't.  We wanted them to take the lead, but they were very kinds and let us go at our own pace -- whatever that was.  The girls then started making out with us and we groped the other woman.  Our cocks poked out.  He was big, but I didn't let it bother me.  I was excited to see Christy try to deep-throat him and to get screwed by him.  The other night I didn't see the guy penetrate her as much as I would like to have.

We swapped partners and Diana and I started kissing.  She was a little more passive than I'd expected.  And I'm not the aggressive type, so it was a bit tough to read her and I didn't know how much I was doing it for her.  I asked for feedback and she said that I was doing everything right.  I did everything in every position.  She was on top of me and I pulled her up so our crotches touched.  She leaned down to me and said, "I don't know.  Is that OK?"  I knew the Christy and I had said that anything same-room was OK, but I responded, "Ask Christy", so she did.  (Christy was in the middle of giving a blow-job).  We all four agreed (as we had previously done online, but apparently Diana may not have been explicitly told) that everyone was good with full-swap no condoms and could cum anywhere (but she doesn't like to swallow as much as Christy does).  So I slipped it in her.  I felt like a teenager.  I was ready to cum in 10 seconds, so I sat up and sucked her tits so that the thrusting would stop.  I then asked if I could go down on her.  She said, "sure".

She laid back and I did my best with my mouth and fingers.  She wasn't as noisy as I'd expected, and her body movements were more subtle that Christy's, but I could tell when she'd had an orgasm and she started to get ticklish.  So I had to stop for a sec and let her cool down while I rubbed her body in a non-tickling way.  While doing this, I looked to my left where next to us on the bed, Brad had my wife on her back with her legs bent up to her chest while he was in the full push-up position and just fucking-the-hell out of her pussy with his thick, long cock!  She was moaning so hard.  Diana had to ask her, "Is that good moaning or painful moaning?"  Christy caught her breath long enough to say "Good!"  It appeared to be one massive orgasm-string for her.  It was so hot!

Now that Diana had a cool-down break, she was ready to go again, and after seeing what I was seeing, I was too.  I laid down on her in the missionary position and slipped it in her.  It felt like Christy, but the face belonged to another woman.  I knew that I wasn't going to last, so I told her and she said, "Go for it."  I kept my eyes open and my face directly over hers with about 12 inches between our faces so I could look at her as I came.  I  pounded like I was 20 years old and I shot all over inside of her.  All I could think about was, "I just fucked and came all over inside of a woman who wasn't my wife."  But unlike almost every other guy who thinks that exact same thing, my wife was two feet away doing the exact same thing and we both knew it and wanted it.

Diana got up to go to the bathroom to get cleaned up.  While she was gone, I just sat back behind Brad so I could see him continually penetrating my wife's pussy and see him repeatedly thrusting into her.  Diana came back and reclined against me, and we both watched the others.  I felt bad that I'd cum so quickly when it was obvious that Brad could go all night.  (He later told us that they'd has sex twice that day so he was able to last a long time).  I gave Diana a back massage so she's have something enjoyable while this was going on.  After what felt like 15 minutes of Christy getting the hell fucked out of her pussy, she called out, "I want you to cum!"  He asked where, she said that she didn't care.  He started going very hard and very fast and I thought she was going to explode and fall backward off the end of the bed.  Once she did have one last massive orgasm and started to come down, she thought he'd cum, but he hadn't.  It was obvious that Christy was done.  She couldn't take any more.  She offered to let him do his wife.  She said, "Now you know why he could have more than one woman in a relationship."  Christy felt bad that he didn't ejaculate and asked what she could do.  I think he wanted to cum, but couldn't and he was kind enough to not put pressure on Christy to make it happen.  So we all got dressed and thanked each other.  We said that this was a good first time play session and now that we're all comfortable with each other, a next time would go more smoothly.  We all chatted for a bit before they went on their way.

Christy and I got exactly what we wanted from the evening.  I got to cum in someone and she got to get screwed by a very good looking, buff, hung dude who could go all night long.  She would have liked him to cum in her (mouth or pussy), but she got that the other night.  So, we're all good.  She just felt bad that he wasn't "satisfied" but I'm confident that it was his own issue and that she had nothing to do with it.  Christy was the most attractive woman in the room and was the most sexual and arousing.  I've learned that sex with her is the most fun.

Christy here again. I read what Joe wrote and I need to add this.  Even though I loved having sex with these other guys, Joe has the perfect penis for me.  It hits me just right in the g-spot.  This other guy, though large, was a bit painful.  I had a great time, but I'm not about to trade in Joe for a different model.  We learned again that sex with others is a lot of fun, but our spouse is best.  I'm going back to bed for a while.  Thank goodness we have late-afternoon Church today.