Friday, December 18, 2009

Emailing an Escort


This is a portion of an email exchange between me and Sarah who is the escort that we found online.

“Sarah: When should we plan for?”
“Kristy: How about on Jan 7th? Joe and I talked about your question on boundaries.  Here is what Joe says:”
“This is Joe.  These are my feelings for the boundaries/permissions: as far as what you and Kristy do, nothing is off limits as far as I'm concerned.  I am comfortable with anything the two of you do together.  Kristy is hoping for an educational growing experience.  The boundaries for myself are more restrictive.  As this is intended to be an experience for Kristy, my participation is to be very limited.  Regardless of where she decides to set boundaries, I will avoid sex other than with Kristy.  I very much want both Kristy and I to be comfortable with this experience, and am completely content with my minimal involvement.”
“This is Kristy again.  After a little getting-to-know-you, and getting over my jitters, I may need you to be patient with me and take the lead for a bit.  Eventually, I’d like you to help me be in the lead for some of the time, having you be the recipient.  I hope this will be an experience for me where I can learn some new skills and gain a greater appreciation of another woman’s sexuality.  Also, do you have any boundaries to which I should be sensitive?”
“As you may be able to tell, I am excited, but also a bit anxious, so please forgive me if my questions are awkward.”
“I was wondering if it would be alright to videotape our time together.  My husband and I occasionally videotape ourselves, and since we will be having a new experience, I was wondering if you would permit this?  It’s OK if you’d prefer that we didn’t; it’s not a problem"
“Also, how do we handle our donation to you?”  (FYI, the requested donation was $800 for the one hour).
“What else should I prepare for?  We probably won’t know our room number until we check in.  Do I call you when we have our room number?  Should I meet you in the lobby?
Kristy