Last night

I'm laying naked in a bed next to my wife. Last night we had sex with a new couple. We each had rooms at the Salt Lake Grand America. We first had dinner with them at the hotel restaurant. He owns a construction company. She's runs an art studio. They are in their late 20's. (The couple that we didn't play with the night before was barely 21). This new couple, "Drew" and "Darcy" have been swinging for the past two years. At dinner we shares stories. Neither of us had had any drama with swinging. We shared stories about the parties we'd been to and the secrets we keep from people at work. We talked about how we met and our kids. Usually stuff.

Then we headed up to their room. A very nice room with a separate foyer. We ordered dessert. They offered us drinks, we explained that we don't drink, so I just took a coke.

They showed us photos of their new home and all the woodwork he did. I could tell that Christy thought he was attractive. Usually she's into the other girl more, but tonight she was into him more. He wasn't suave, but was rugged. She was very friendly and sweet. Eventually Christy pulled out the sex toys and showed then what we brought. There's sometimes some awkwardness trying to figure out how to move the conversation from "tell me about your job" to "I'd like to have sex with your wife." Christy showed them this good lube that we have and said that it's good for a massage. We all agreed to move to the bedroom. The women got naked and the guys undressed to their shorts. (We prepared by not wearing our garments to dinner - just secular/sporting underwear). Once the women were naked and face down, we swapped partners and gave the other woman a long back massage. This was our first experience that didn't start with girl-girl play. After a while, we swapped spots so the girls could give us a massage. Everyone was talking and having a good time. Very friendly.

After five minutes of that, I sat up and asked Darcy if I could kiss her. She said yes, so I did. Christy and Drew were doing the same thing. Then we went at it, all the usual stuff: kissing, sucking on her clit, fingering her, playing with her tits. I love looking over at my smoking hot wife and seeing the very sensuous look on her face as she's getting aroused. She looks like a porn star. And the way she moans is so hot. I was then laying back getting a blow-job. Darcy was good at that, but she was better at kissing. She has a very aggressive tongue. It was so hot to see my wife deep-throat Drew. Darcy told me that I could go inside. I got a condom on and so did Drew. He also had a vibrating cock ring on that Christy had brought. He'd never used one before. You have no idea how hot it is to see some other guy's cock enter your wife's pussy. Her legs were bent up to near her ears and he was in the push- up position just slowly sliding in and out of her. She moaned and purred. Meanwhile, I was doing the same thing to Darcy. It was so hard to not cum immediately after penetrating her. I tried to hold off. Prior to this, I had given her an orgasm with a vibrator and my fingers. I started thrusting and I knew that I couldn't hold back. So I let it go. It was so good. I stayed hard for a few minutes afterward so I kept pounding her. Eventually I pulled out and went to the bathroom to removed the condom and wipe off. When I returned to the bedroom, Drew had Christy sideways on the bed with him standing next to the bed entering her. He would reach down and push the vibrating cock ring against her clit and make her cum over and over. He asked if it was too much for her. She said no, that it was good. He pounded her for another five minutes. Eventually she said that she needed to take a break now that she'd had 20 orgasms. I suggested that Drew do his wife while Christy and I took a break. He entered his wife doggy style. Very hot.

We then got dressed a bit and sat and talked with them. Christy and Darcy arranged to have lunch together sometime. We offered to let them keep the bottle of lube. They talked about heading out on the town at this point. We told then that we were "too old" and that we preferred bed. (It was 1 am at this point). We gave a round of hugs and handshakes. Then we headed out the door and to our room.

In our room, just the two of us, we recounted the best parts of the encounter and it got us turned on again, so I jacked off onto Christy while she did herself with a vibrator.

Laying here now, I want Christy to text them to see if Drew wants to come to our room and keep pounding her brains out. But she's still tired. So it will just have to remain a fantastic memory.

Green Eyed Monster

We had a date with a couple set up for tonight. It was with a couple we have played with once before. They are attractive and nice. We had a great time with them the last (and only other) time we played.

We'd prepared for this night at least a month in advance. We got dressed up, but 30 minutes before we were scheduled to meet them at the restaurant I got a funny feeling. I had not been super excited to play with them again, but I didn't tell Joe and I didn't know why. But now I knew why. I was feeling jealous. I recalled that at our first date with them, she was very into my husband. She is much younger and is flirty. Joe liked it. But I remember feeling a bit of jealousy. So, before we headed out the door tonight to meet them, I told my husband that we could meet them for dinner, but that I didn't want us (specifically him) to have sex with them. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to watch it without feeling jealous. And I worried that she would attach to him too much and that Joe, being a man, wouldn't be able to resist her if she ever tried to pull him away.

I appreciate that Joe let me decide that for us. He assured me that it wouldn't happen and that I had nothing to worry about, but he loves me enough and respects me enough to just go along with my requests even if they don't make complete sense to him and even if they're at the last minute.

So we went to dinner with them and let then know that we were happy to treat them to the meal, but that we'd have to cut out afterward. We had a pleasant meal. We talked about swinging, our kids, their travels, etc. They were a little dissapointed that they wouldn't get to have sex with us. They even asked if they could take Joe alone even if I wasn't going to play. Joe said that he was flattered, but that we don't play alone.

So we came back home and the two of us had great sex like we've never had before, then we laid in bed and watched a movie.

We have a date with another couple tomorrow night. This will be our first time with them. I don't expect any of the same issues. But we never know what to expect. That's part of the fun and it's always an adventure.

Unwelcome Visitor

Just for fun, I was googling "Mormon Swingers".  Of course, my blog and links to my blog came up.  This link also came up: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a30576385/?cpg=-1#c2368158940

It's a forum composed of Mormon mommies who during November and December of this year, have been chatting in their forum about swingers, with references to my blog.  They've been doing this for 16 pages.  I thought it would be interesting to drop in and say hi.  As soon as I did, my post got deleted by the moderator.  I posted again, and it got deleted.  She said that I was disruptive to the community.  Then the forum got locked so no one could post.

I feel like the young hussy walking into a hair dressers in a backwoods salon.  All the regulars are there gossiping about the floozy in town.  As soon as I try to be nice, the one under the dryer says, "Well, I never!" and they all pull their magazines to their face.  I know when I'm not wanted.

Christmas Eve

I'm sitting in the car in the driveway after delivering Christmas gifts to families from Church. We also took the kids to visit an elderly sister who's in the hospital. Unfortunately, she'll be there through Christmas. I'm now listening to David Sedaris read his "Santa-land Diaries". It's awesome. If you haven't heard it, you must!

Found Another Couple of Wild Mormons!

I got this today via email.  We've been chatting all day, and I've learned so much about her.  We are very alike.  We've even divulged more of our identities to each other--"golden handcuffs"--to prove ourselves to each other. Here's Veronica's story.

Hello, I just discovered your blog, and I am in shock at the similarities to our lives. I am an active LDS woman with several kids living in a non-LDS part of the US. My husband and I met in college, and we've been married for 17 years. Ups and downs throughout our marriage, but the past year has been AMAZING....and this past year is VERY similar to your 2009 and 2010 posts.

I had always had a little bit of "bi" curiosity....wondering what a woman's nipple would feel like on my tongue, how a breast would feel in my hand, etc...but never dreamed I'd act on it. My husband is a great husband, father and provider, but was less "devout" than me about church. He was always active, performed his callings, hit-and-miss on home teaching, and just "liked" being LDS. He was exposed to porn as a teen and looked at it regularly in his younger years. He looked at it a couple times in our early marriage, and as an insecure woman, I FREAKED, threatened to leave him, etc. (Wow, thinking back, I can't believe how I acted...) I met him my freshman year of college, during his senior year at a small regional university.

About a year ago, we were having some stress in our marriage and decided we were going to get away for a long weekend - no kids, just us - 4 days together in Vegas. On the flight there, he suggested seeing an erotic revue, a topless show or something. I was intrigued, but said that I wouldn't be able to relax and enjoy myself. I hinted that maybe some alcoholic beverages (I'd only tasted a couple times in my life before I was baptized) might help me lose enough inhibitions... I thought he would freak that I suggested it ... Instead, he acted like it was no big deal. He said "fine by me" and called the flight attendant over. He asked what I liked those times I'd drank in college. I got some vodka and orange juice. We decided this would be a "one time stays-in-Vegas" event. (the alcohol.)

With the alcohol, the sex was SO MUCH MORE FUN!!!! I orgasm so much with it, and my husband describes me as being "in a ditch" without it. He describes having to "rock the car out of the ditch" - that it takes lots and lots of foreplay before I really get into sex. I totally understand why the church teaches against it, because it truly influenced me to do things that I would not have done otherwise. My husband and I came to an agreement........that alcohol was dangerous, that the church was wise to tell us to avoid it, but that we could keep it safe by agreeing that I would only drink in his presence, and it was only as a "sexual tool", almost like my Viagra for women. It relaxes me so much, that I want LOTS and LOTS of sex.

It looks like you have not included alcohol, but for us, we feel it is okay, when it is used "medicinally" ;) Sort of like we'd have no problem with a man taking Viagra as he got older. (Yeah, justifications.....but we all make them for what we like to do.)

So, back to my story... We went to a show in Vegas called Fantasy at the Luxor. It really piqued my interest. The women were beautiful, and I really liked the show and was surprised just how many other women were there watching. (no single women, but lots of couples and single men.) As we were leaving the show, I suggested that we go check out a Vegas strip club. I figured, we're being wild on this one weekend - if not now, when? He wasted no time at all getting a taxi to take us to Sapphire. He had gone to strip clubs a few times in college and hadn't ever expected to get me to go (remembering my previous porn freakouts).

Holy heck! I had no idea. I had no idea that lap dances had so much grinding..... I had always thought there was distance between the patron and dancers, uh, no!!! He told me later he was very nervous that things were "going to go off the rails". He refused lap dances, kept ordering the alcohol for me while he drank Diet Coke, etc. (He has never drunk alcohol BTW.) A couple girls offered dances, but it wasn't until about 3 drinks, that I lost enough inhibitions to enjoy a lap-dance....and enjoy it I did.

I too discovered that I had a HUGE ENJOYMENT of exhibitionism. I had some ridiculously "high-mileage" lap dances that probably should have been in the VIP room. The men all around were REALLY enjoying the show. The girls would give me a dance, then all the men would want a dance from her.....good for business, and the bouncers watched and never stopped anything. I had multiple orgasms right out there in front of all those people! I ended up getting dances for a couple hours and my husband LOVED IT!!!!!!! We went back to our hotel room and had some of the best sex we'd had in a long time.

Turns out that night woke the bi-sexual beast inside me!!!! :) We decided that maybe we would get away once every year or so to Vegas, and this would be our "Vegas secret".

So anyway, we came back home, but I couldn't stop thinking about women....and I wanted more - I wanted to go further. We started going to strip clubs. At first we went to some of the surrounding cities, then we started going locally....and my interest grew and grew and grew. We've probably visited 10 strip clubs in the last year. Each time it was a similar scene - I would get the dances, my husband would have a great time watching, but he wouldn't participate.

I think he was worried that he would "break" this new phase. He told me later that he was super excited to have gotten this far.  He didn't press for any more, just enjoyed watching girls dance for me. Eventually, I convinced him to get lap dances and that I wouldn't be jealous. It surprised me that I LOVED seeing it.

I kept wanting more. I wanted to actually make out with a woman - kiss her, feel her body. If anything visits to the strip clubs could be a little frustrating in that regards. We talked about getting an escort, but my fear of possibly being arrested wiped that idea right out of my mind! (I could just imaging having my name appear in a Google search by our children 5 years from now).

That all changed when we found out that prostitution is not illegal in Canada!!!!!!! Pimping and brothels are illegal. "Street walkers" are illegal. But escorts - both in-call and out-call are fully legal. They're allowed to advertise on the internet....and making visits to your hotel room is not illegal AT ALL!!! I was intrigued. ;)

We ordered passports and started planning (and fantasizing). To not give away our location at this point, I'll just say it was within driving distance to Montreal. I tell you, the larger cities in Canada are like an adult DISNEY LAND!!!! Holy crap.. - beautiful women - lots of them! And it was only $250 - $500 an hour for classy, well reviewed escorts. WOW. OH MY GOSH!!

This weekend was everything I fantasized about...but better. i hadn't imagined that it would be so guilt and jealousy-free. Amazing threesomes. We saw three amazing ladies that weekend. (This was just a few weeks ago.)

I was SO CONCERNED that seeing my husband touching another woman would cause me some serious issues. My husband closely observed me to make sure I was okay the whole time, and instead of being bothered by it, it just made me FREAKING HORNY to see him doing the things to these beautiful women that he does to me. I had a FABULOUS TIME!!! I just can't get enough. Our sexual passion has just grown all the more after this weekend. I can't wait to experience it all again.

We aren't sure if we are going to jump to full swinging stuff or not....but it's been an amazing journey thus far. Our marriage is better than ever....and my husband can't keep his hands off me. I am just floored seeing that there is a similar couple out there with the same religious values who have had the same experiences.

Veronica

Another Great Swinging Experience Last Night

The Scene the Morning After

Last night was probably (definitely) our best swinging experience so far.  Having played with a few couples in the past, we were less anxious and concerned about the details of what may or may not happen.  Also, we’d gotten to know this couple pretty well from a party we attended a couple of months ago and I, just by happenstance, sat next to them on the flight out of Vegas.  Over the last few weeks, she and I had been texting one another occasionally to set up this date.  This is the first play-date that I, not Joe, have been more in charge of.  He loved that I took the lead and it made me feel more in control.  Melanie is really hot and so is her husband.  We got the hotel room and a connecting room.  They knocked on the door and we let them in.  It’s a little awkward (and exciting) to welcome and hug someone who you KNOW you’re going to be having sex with in a few hours.  They came in and sat down and we just talked and talked for at least an hour.  It was great conversation, just like with any other couple.  We talked about kids, and family, and work, and sex, and swinging, and people we know.  In the past, with our first few couples, it’s been a little awkward wondering how we’ll make that transition from chatting on the couch to “OK, let’s have sex now”.  But this time we didn’t put pressure on ourselves.  We just talked and talked until Melanie said, “Let’s go look at the toys in the bedroom.”  So, we did. 

We girls laid on the bed side by side and the guys sat on a bench at the foot of the bed.  We looked at the sex toys and talked about experiences with them.  She and I got closer and rubbed arms and then we just started making out.  Our husbands sat and watched.  It was very hot and not awkward at all.  Of this time, Joe later commented that there should be a name for that period when the two girls are making out and before the guys are invited in.  All the blood flows out of their brain and they just stare.  What brain function they do have left is wavering between “I want to watch this forever” and “I want to get in there too.”   She and I undressed each other, and kissed and licked, and made out.  She gave me oral sex—very well I must say.  She was really, really good. Then it was my turn to do her.  She wanted me to use a toy on her, so I did.  She squired and moaned and grabbed on anyone within reach.  When she was done, she invited the guys in.  In the past, each girl has made out with her own husband for a bit, but Melanie asked if she could play with Joe right away.  Joe didn’t mind at all.  Everyone got naked on the bed.  Ben and I made out and kissed and licked everything.  I gave him oral sex and used all the techniques I knew.  Yes, I can deep throat.  He fingered me and Joe fingered Melanie.  We women had a lot of orgasms.  Joe got a good blowjob from Melanie.  To this point, both guys were holding off on cumming.  Melanie got on her hands and knees and kissed me while Ben played with my pussy with his mouth and hands.  I came so many times.  Joe fingered Melanie deep and hard from behind.  She had told me before that she likes it a bit rough, so Joe used a few fingers and pounded her hard.  She kneeled up and he used one arm to hold her up while the other was in her pussy.  She came very hard.  It was great to watch my husband do that to her.

Then she said to Joe, “get a condom”.  I told Ben the same thing.  We let the guys pick the position.  Joe and Melanie picked “missionary”.  Ben had me on my back with my knees up to my chest.  Then both us woman got our pussies fucked (sorry for swearing) by men who weren’t our husband.  After just a few minutes, Joe told Melanie that he felt like he was going to cum.  (Earlier she’s told us that the guy the previous night never did get done, so she’s worried that it was he fault.  [Intellectually we women know that it’s not our fault, but we still worry].  Joe didn’t want her to “fail” again.)  She smiled and said, “go for it.”  So he did.  After he did, they smiled at each other, then he pulled out and removed his condom and dumped it in the trash and wiped off.  Ben kept pounding and thrusting in me.  He changed positions to the side of the bed with him standing and with me in various positions.  It was so good that it hurt.  When it became too intense for me, he slowed his thrusting.  He was very good.  Joe caressed Melanie and she wanted to play with a vibrator.  I helped her have another orgasm with it.  We then paused for a while to talk about our dogs and whatever.  We all just sat on the bed, naked, tired, hot, and comfy.  We really thought that we were done for the night, but Joe got an erection again and he and Melanie started touching each other again.  I offered to finish Ben off, so he sat in bed against the headboard and I went down on him.  After a few minutes, I suggested that we swap back to our own spouses so the guys could get done without a condom.  Joe rode me missionary style and came in me.  Melanie and Ben were going at it next to us.  Joe and I had a simultaneous orgasm.  (We do that frequently).  He leaned in and kissed me and told me how beautiful I am and how much he loved me. 

Everyone got up and put on a robe or pants, had a few bites of snacks, then we chatted for a few more minutes about how they’ll have to get up early.  So we hugged them goodnight and we went into our separate room.   When we woke up in the morning, as planned, they had already gone, but they left us a nice text.  We exchanged a few texts today telling them how much we appreciated them and the experience.

Then we drove to Church.  Church was good too.

Texting a Date

We’ve been wanting to play with a couple next weekend.  One of the couples what we met on our last Vegas trip doesn’t live far from us.  In fact, we were on the same plane home from our last Vegas trip and I sat next to her.  Anyway, we didn’t think we’d get to play with them next weekend because they have a Christmas party, but here’s what she texted me today.

Melanie: We have an option for next Saturday night if you are open to a compromise.  It’s not ideal, but can make it up to you next time.  We could leave our Christmas party at 10 pm and meet up with you guys wherever.  You mentioned downtown, so would be about 10:30 pm at the latest.  If we set a time to meet, promise we will be there at that time…we are very respectful of other people’s opportunities to go out.

Christy: That sounds good to me, let me run it by [Joe] and get back to you!  I get giddy thinking of it.  Christy

(later)

Christy: Let’s go for it.  As long as you are sure that we aren’t taking you away from your vanilla party! We don’t want to be party crashers. 

Melanie: Yea!!  Tell Joe that I will make it so worthwhile.  Muh…I want you. We can still make appearances and visit and then go out and play.  Plus we have a built-in sitter so we can stay out all night.

Christy: Yea!!  I’ll book the hotel right now! I can’t wait. Tell your husband the same thing.  Mmmm. I’m wet thinking of it.

Melanie: You and me both Hon.  Just let me know where you want to meet up at. We will be fairly casual for this party. ..jeans/nice tops kind of thing.

Christy: Sounds good. I don’t plan on the clothes staying on for long. J

Melanie: That would be why I like you so much!

(later)

Christy: I got the four of us the two-bedroom presidential suite (our treat) at the [hotel] in the downtown area for Saturday, December 10^th.  Plan on working up an appetite since it includes breakfast. Kisses.

Melanie: Wow! So I guess that means we really have to put out, huh?

Christy: That means that we really want you bad!

Melanie: You realize that I am so hot for you, I would take you in the back of a car if I had to.  Just saying . . .

Christy: Oh, I feel the same.  I plan on being naked in the tub waiting for you!  I’ll do you in the car in Vegas when we meet in February.  We can invite Stacy to join us.

Melanie: Nice! I like my women wet.  That would be fun . . .one thing I have not gotten to do, more than two of us females.

Christy: Me neither! J  Let’s plan on it.  It will get the guys all stiff and ready to go watching us . . . Ooo I just realized that I get to play with two bald men in Vegas!!!  What a weekend!!! I get to warm up this month with your husband and you and then look forward to more in February.  All though, I may not be able to wait that long! We may be setting up another date with you guys in January.

Melanie: They would love that.  My husband adores watching me.  I’m a fan of Randy as well….big fan.  Made me laugh when first met them, didn’t realize how much he looked like my husband.  I was like “I’m strangely attracted to you!”  I think [Joe] is very attractive as well and look forward to teasing him too.

Christy: [Joe] will love playing with you too.  I’ve got to get to bed, but I’ll be having hot dreams now.

I'll let you know how the date turns out.

The Latest Event

Well, back from another adventure. While in the big city, we hosted a fun little hotel suite event. The first night we met some friends and went to a dance club where a D-list celebrity was celebrating his birthday. We then piled into a SUV limo and then went from strip club to strip club and then ended up at a sex club where two hookers were getting pounded by men twice as old as them.   One was there with three guys who seemed to have dropped out of a sitcom. One was a little Asian man doing back-arches on a sex-saddle while watching the hooker give a stripper-pole lesson to a mentally challenged Hispanic man, while the old sugar daddy sat back and watched it all.  We and our friends tried to find a secluded place in the club to play, but we got followed and watched.  We got naked and played, but couldn't help laughing.  We tried to laugh quietly while a guy stood outside the bead "curtains" and masturbated through his pants while watching us.

The next night we had our little hotel suite event.  In total, it was about 17 couples who joined in.  We even had two LDS couples, but we think we scared off one of them before we even got up to the room (or maybe we were too old for them).  Most of the others we have known on and off again for the past few years.  Some were brand new to us.  I won't go into the details, but it took very little time before most everyone was undressed to some degree and sitting on someone else's lap.  There were three-ways and four-ways and everything else.  Lots of girls-on girls and strap-ons and toys.  It was so much fun!  There were also some newer couples there who were a bit shy.  No one pushed them at all.  One of them later said that this was the first swinger event they ever attended where no one tried to push them into anything.  In the end, they got naked and played with each other and did a little soft playing with other couples.  One very new woman even got her fantasy of having five women playing with her at the same time.  She didn't want any guys involved, and everyone was very respectful.

All in all, it was a very fun time.  Condoms were used, almost everyone had sex with someone else.  It was very free and liberating.  Very non-judgemental.  Definitely something we'll do again.

Hometown Swinging

We'll we've tried playing closer to home.  It hasn't work out all that well.  Even though there are many couples in our local area who are interested in playing, there are issues.  One issue is hosting.  Couples state that either they can host at their home or not.  We never plan on hosting at our home.  We have kids.  That's that.  And we don't want people knowing our last names or where we live.  Doesn't seem safe -- just in case.  We also don't like the idea of going to someone else's home, at least not at first.  What if they're criminals or worse: messy!  So we've always played at a hotel.  We pay for the room, always.

The advantage of playing closer to home is obvious: less travel and more flexibility.  But that's also the disadvantage.  It means that it's easier for us to back out if we need to.  And this has happened twice in the last two weeks.  We had something set up for a night and we got a hotel arranged.  But then one of our kids got sick, so we had to reschedule for the following week.  Next week, the same thing.  (We wouldn't dare ask that couple for a third chance and if we were them, we probably wouldn't give someone a third chance.  And it's likely that they think that we're lying about having a sick kid).

When we travel out of the area, we leave our kids in the care of someone responsible and we're too far away to rush back for the sniffles.  Being far away also takes us mentally out of the picture and give us time to mentally separate from the worries of the home.  It doesn't work well to leave home at 6 pm with the dogs messing up the yard, the kids working on homework, the visiting teachers just having left brownies on the doorstep, and then be having sex with another couple two hours later.  Not enough time to set the mood.

The other problem with playing so close to home is that it could occur more frequently.  Some may say, "that's great!", but if it becomes an every weekend thing then it takes some of the exciting buildup out of it, and it becomes routine.

We've also discussed the issue about becoming friends with the other couple.  We don't mind become FriendsWithBenefits, but we are more interested in the benefits part than the true friendship.  Concerned about what could happen if the friendship became too strong and affections began to be shared.  Then an affair could happen.  (We've had some friends in the lifestyle who we've soft-swapped with a little, but it wasn't anything to write home about.  We weren't really into them.  So we like them more as friends now rather than play-partners).  I think at most, we'd like the friendship to be no more than 30% of the relationship and sex to be the other 70%.  Any more than 30% friendship is too risky, and anything less than 10% means there's no way to have a conversation - just sex.  We like the sex, but we've at least got to be able to enjoy a dinner with them.

So, it's hard to give up the idea of finding easy couples in the local area to hook-up with more easily and more regularly, but I think we're going to have to give up that idea and just keep doing the travel thing until the kids are grown.

Quickie at the sex club.

Just went to the local sex club for a quickie with each other. We had a great time, just the two of us. On the way home I had to pee so bad. I had my husband pull over and since I had no underwear on, I took off my shoes and stood on the side of the road and peed on the ground. Good thing I had wipies in the car.

Second Full-Swap

I can only imagine what you're thinking.  The first was just two nights ago, and now another one?  We'll it was sort of planned that way.  I'm going to have my husband tell this one.

Hi, Joe here.  I'm not sure what I'm supposed to say.  Still very tired from being up until 2:30 last night.  It's only 9:00 a.m. Oh, and we had sex with another couple last night.  We met them online and talked a lot before meeting.  They were older than the couple two nights ago, but they were still younger than us.  He was built and buff and HUGE compared to me.  They were both very nice.  Had a nice dinner.  Talked openly at the table about swinging.  My wife wore a great strappy dress with no panties.  We took the risk that no one would recognize us.  I think the waiter kept hearing snippits of our conversation and had an idea of what we were planning.  The other couple told us that we were the most normal ones they'd met.  Turns out they do this regularly and that they have a girl they play with routinely.  They even tried out polyamoury at least once.  The guy was very good looking so he had no problem attracting women and couples to bring home to his sexually insatiable wife.  They told us that they were into separate room play; I said that we hadn't done that yet and they respected that.

After dessert, we came back here.  It's always a bit awkward for us on how to make the transition from good conversation to good sex.  I usually let the women do it, but as I guy, I'm anxious to get it going.  Eventually, that pause came in the conversation and one of the women said, I'm going to change into something else.  So the women changed into their nighties and then went to the bed.  Diana had rarely used toys, so Christy laid her back on the bed and started working a toy against her panties and the around her panties.  She kissed her nipples and her mouth and put the toy inside her and kept going until she had a quiet little orgasm.

The women then got fully undressed and we guys got down to our skivvies.  Something about it felt a bit more socially awkward than other times.  Just couldn't read them as well.  They'd done this a lot and we hadn't.  We wanted them to take the lead, but they were very kinds and let us go at our own pace -- whatever that was.  The girls then started making out with us and we groped the other woman.  Our cocks poked out.  He was big, but I didn't let it bother me.  I was excited to see Christy try to deep-throat him and to get screwed by him.  The other night I didn't see the guy penetrate her as much as I would like to have.

We swapped partners and Diana and I started kissing.  She was a little more passive than I'd expected.  And I'm not the aggressive type, so it was a bit tough to read her and I didn't know how much I was doing it for her.  I asked for feedback and she said that I was doing everything right.  I did everything in every position.  She was on top of me and I pulled her up so our crotches touched.  She leaned down to me and said, "I don't know.  Is that OK?"  I knew the Christy and I had said that anything same-room was OK, but I responded, "Ask Christy", so she did.  (Christy was in the middle of giving a blow-job).  We all four agreed (as we had previously done online, but apparently Diana may not have been explicitly told) that everyone was good with full-swap no condoms and could cum anywhere (but she doesn't like to swallow as much as Christy does).  So I slipped it in her.  I felt like a teenager.  I was ready to cum in 10 seconds, so I sat up and sucked her tits so that the thrusting would stop.  I then asked if I could go down on her.  She said, "sure".

She laid back and I did my best with my mouth and fingers.  She wasn't as noisy as I'd expected, and her body movements were more subtle that Christy's, but I could tell when she'd had an orgasm and she started to get ticklish.  So I had to stop for a sec and let her cool down while I rubbed her body in a non-tickling way.  While doing this, I looked to my left where next to us on the bed, Brad had my wife on her back with her legs bent up to her chest while he was in the full push-up position and just fucking-the-hell out of her pussy with his thick, long cock!  She was moaning so hard.  Diana had to ask her, "Is that good moaning or painful moaning?"  Christy caught her breath long enough to say "Good!"  It appeared to be one massive orgasm-string for her.  It was so hot!

Now that Diana had a cool-down break, she was ready to go again, and after seeing what I was seeing, I was too.  I laid down on her in the missionary position and slipped it in her.  It felt like Christy, but the face belonged to another woman.  I knew that I wasn't going to last, so I told her and she said, "Go for it."  I kept my eyes open and my face directly over hers with about 12 inches between our faces so I could look at her as I came.  I  pounded like I was 20 years old and I shot all over inside of her.  All I could think about was, "I just fucked and came all over inside of a woman who wasn't my wife."  But unlike almost every other guy who thinks that exact same thing, my wife was two feet away doing the exact same thing and we both knew it and wanted it.

Diana got up to go to the bathroom to get cleaned up.  While she was gone, I just sat back behind Brad so I could see him continually penetrating my wife's pussy and see him repeatedly thrusting into her.  Diana came back and reclined against me, and we both watched the others.  I felt bad that I'd cum so quickly when it was obvious that Brad could go all night.  (He later told us that they'd has sex twice that day so he was able to last a long time).  I gave Diana a back massage so she's have something enjoyable while this was going on.  After what felt like 15 minutes of Christy getting the hell fucked out of her pussy, she called out, "I want you to cum!"  He asked where, she said that she didn't care.  He started going very hard and very fast and I thought she was going to explode and fall backward off the end of the bed.  Once she did have one last massive orgasm and started to come down, she thought he'd cum, but he hadn't.  It was obvious that Christy was done.  She couldn't take any more.  She offered to let him do his wife.  She said, "Now you know why he could have more than one woman in a relationship."  Christy felt bad that he didn't ejaculate and asked what she could do.  I think he wanted to cum, but couldn't and he was kind enough to not put pressure on Christy to make it happen.  So we all got dressed and thanked each other.  We said that this was a good first time play session and now that we're all comfortable with each other, a next time would go more smoothly.  We all chatted for a bit before they went on their way.

Christy and I got exactly what we wanted from the evening.  I got to cum in someone and she got to get screwed by a very good looking, buff, hung dude who could go all night long.  She would have liked him to cum in her (mouth or pussy), but she got that the other night.  So, we're all good.  She just felt bad that he wasn't "satisfied" but I'm confident that it was his own issue and that she had nothing to do with it.  Christy was the most attractive woman in the room and was the most sexual and arousing.  I've learned that sex with her is the most fun.

Christy here again. I read what Joe wrote and I need to add this.  Even though I loved having sex with these other guys, Joe has the perfect penis for me.  It hits me just right in the g-spot.  This other guy, though large, was a bit painful.  I had a great time, but I'm not about to trade in Joe for a different model.  We learned again that sex with others is a lot of fun, but our spouse is best.  I'm going back to bed for a while.  Thank goodness we have late-afternoon Church today.

First Full-Swap

We did it!  It was awesome!!
We decided a couple of weeks ago that we were probably ready for our first full-swap (vaginal-penile intercourse with another couple, not just oral sex).  So we put an ad on Craigslist.  We didn't do it in our hometown, but posted in the next valley over.  We then chatted online with a few couples.  One very eager and interested couple was much younger than us.  Turns out a lot younger.  They lied about their age.  We met them for dinner at a Mexican restaurant and chatted.  Even though they were young, they had already had a full-swap with another couple a few months ago (their first swinging experience), and they seemed very committed and stable in their marriage.  They were both very confident in their sexuality, but not braggy.  They were not members of the Church; hence their confidence.  She experimented with girls (kissing and touching) during high-school, but he was a virgin until they were married.  They'd watched porn together a few months ago and then decided that it would be fun to hook up with another couple, so they did.  Then then decided to do it again, with us last night.

After dinner, we all came back here, and she and I took a bath together while the guys watched and got hard.  We then went to the bedroom where "Brandy" and I got on the bed and started kissing and grinding on each other.  She wanted me to take the more aggressive role, so I did.  I put a vibrator between us and I was on top.  The guys stood and watched us.  We shared a double-ended dildo and a bunch of orgasms.  She is breastfeeding, so I got my first taste of someone else's breast milk.

We then undressed our guys, and they took turns taking showers to get off the day's sweat and grime.  Then, all of us fully naked, got on the bed.  Brandy was on top of me and the two guys knelt on each side of us and I took each of their members in my hands.  It would have been a great picture.  After that, it was just swapping, and ridding, and pounding, and grunting, and moaning, for the next hour or two.

As my husband "Joe" lay next to me, he had Brandy sit on top of him and slip him inside of her.  She was the first woman, other than me, who he'd ever had full sex with.  Brandy's husband, Justin, had sex with me (my first also).  We all changed positions and parters many times (never any guy-guy stuff though).  I came so many times!  For a young guy, he lasted a long time.  Eventually when I was riding on top of him, I asked him if he was ready to come, so he did.  Joe was ready to come early (said he felt like a teenager who can't control it).  He warned Brandy and she had him pull back (she didn't want to get pregnant).  As the session went on, he would thrust into her for a few seconds and then hold back if he felt like he was going to ejaculate.  (We gave a lot of great blow-jobs too and got our clits sucked on also).  Joe and Brandy finished after she requested that he do her doggy-style, and when he was about to ejaculate, he pulled out and came all over her back, up to her neck.  It was at least a "five-roper" as they say.

We all got cleaned up, got half dressed, and then sat and talked again for a while.  We told them that they were great and they said the same about us.  We discussed the possibility of meeting again.  We thanked them for a great night and they went home.  Joe and I talked and felt very good.  Even though it was great sex, (and it was great sex), nothing beats having the intimate relationship with your spouse.  They were a great play couple, very friendly, but because of the vast age difference, we didn't have much in common.  If we'd met them when we were first married, we likely would have been friends with them.  But we're at different places in our lives.  In many ways, they're ahead of us and more experienced.  By the time we catch up with them, we'll be too old to do this, so we'll just keep enjoying this at our own pace.

Lori's Story

This was just emailed to me.  She said that part 2 would follow.
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Ok, so I am a unicorn.  The single girl that plays with a married couple. The girl that every guy wants in his fantasy with him and his girl/wife.  I am also a Returned Missionary, Ricks and BYU alumni, lifetime member from convert stock (who can be just as anally black and white as pioneer, lol), and divorcee who is struggling to remain active in a church that seems to be primarily for families because even though 60% of our membership or more is single, 90% of them are inactive.

 

Ten years ago, I would never have imagined I would be doing these things now.  Twenty years ago, I couldn't even wrap my mind around anything but the eternal family, idealistic Mormon view of perfection. And I still feel that I am being inspired to carry on the Lord's work in spite of this, and through study have even begun to suspect that my behavior is not all that evil in the Lord's eyes. That maybe even he wanted me to get here.  I need to share my story, and find a path for myself and others, who are one of fifty single women for the (maybe) ten active men. This is maybe not the right choice for many Mormons (or Christians), true, but please listen to my story before you condemn me. 

 

It's hard to tell my story and remain anonymous.  But I have reached the stage where I almost no longer care.  I want things to change in the church so badly, and I even feel the Lord does too, and supports me.  For my earlier, relatively minor infractions, I lost my callings, and there is no place in this church for the person who is not given callings.  Now, although I know I am strong enough to make it somehow if I desired the calling badly enough, I have realized that if I, an active leader in the singles program that the church wants and needs, can't find a place for myself without a calling, how can all of the dozens of other less active members, single or otherwise.  If some of my friends were to read this and recognize who I am, I hope they would come to me so that we can talk.  I doubt any of them would find and read this unless they were searching for something, too.  Maybe even I would find my mate that way, a guy who can open his mind a little bit and be unselfish enough to share me. My new views don't accept that women have to do all the sharing in the practice of polygamy.   

 

But I am getting ahead of myself. So even though this will be long, let me start at the beginning and try to entertain you. 

 

I, Molly Mormon, married a guy from the wrong side of the tracks, who promised to give up smoking, drinking, drugs and attend church with me.  I did this because the Spirit told me I needed to, to raise two stepchildren in the church, and I was promised he would join.  He did, but never made a full conversion.  At the end of our marriage, they all came back into his life, and also a girl half his age to boot.  I tried to keep it going as long as I could, because I wasn't a failure, good Mormons didn't get divorced.  But finally I walked into my Bishop's office and asked if I could get out of it without the church or the Lord condemning me, and he asked, "What took you so long?"   However, it's not as easy as all that.

 

For the majority of our married life, the sex was great, and held us together.  A sex life that averaged probably six days of the week.  Even at the end, even when he was having the affair, it was not less then every other week.  Why is that?  Because even though all of the love and trust were gone, the sex had been so good that it had become a chemical addiction in my brain. 

 

Here is a young LDS girl who did everything right.  She didn't try drugs or alchohol or cigarettes.  She was a virgin when she was married. When she made her covenants in the temple and went on a mission, she kept them, never having sex until she was lawfully married.  She covenented this believing in eternal marriage, and that once she was married she would live faithfully and have a forever family.  She was given the Lord's blessing to have sex with her husband.  And she never committed adultery with anyone else, even though he did not keep the same promises.  But then the situation became intolerable and he was sleeping with someone else.  No matter how much she didn't want to have sex with him, he knew all the buttons to push.  And her body would react without any emotional attachment, even when she abhored him. More so, her own body would betray her after a few days, and after as little as two weeks, the withdrawl symptoms would buckle her resistance.  Even when going through the divorce, at least sex with him was still legal in the Church's eyes but it was illegal to date anyone else until the divorce was final.  And that dragged out as she fought for her kids and to keep them out of a nasty situation.  So she had to find a way to keep away from him and end this before her children's lives were destroyed.  The choices: legal sex with an abusive husband, or have a boyfriend who would keep him away from her and try to be good. Good intentions that would inevitably crumble when the addiction took over her will.  And the story and the search began.

Major Swinger Party Host!

I wrote this earlier in 2011, but I didn't want to post it until now because if I'd posted it the week that it had happened someone may have figured out a little too much.

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This last weekend in Vegas was absolutely surreal!  For the previous month or so we'd been advertising a huge swinger party online.  From our previous adventures, we'd met a few couples who know couples and we sent out invitations to all of them.  In the end, we got commitments from about  20 very hot couples. 

We arranged a meeting time and place in the lobby of the hotel.  It's customary to do it this way so that no one knows the exact hotel room number.  We don't want anyone crashing the party or trying to shut us down.  (I think Vegas hotels pretty much expect sex parties though).  This hotel was one of the most opulent and prestigious in Las Vegas, right on the center of the Strip.  In my opinion, it’s the best hotel in Vegas.

Once we got all the stuff set up in the room: food, drinks (no alcohol of course), sex toys, etc; we went down to the rendezvous location in the lobby and waited for the guests to arrive.  I was so surprised at how beautiful and friendly everyone was, and how many of them showed up!  I was starting to get almost overwhelmed.  I was really going to do this!  I was going to host an elite swinger sex party!  These people were expecting me (a Molly Mormon) to be hosting this very high-class event.  Once everyone showed up, we led them through the lobby and the casino.  This was the most surreal part, leading a group of very hot swingers through a high-end Vegas casino up to THE BEST suite in the hotel.  Never again would I have an experience like this.

Ad we walked through the hotel, I felt line the Pied Piper.  These people would follow me wherever I led them.  They were expecting an awesome sex party, and I was going to give it to them.  I knew that I would reflect back on this very moment and never forget it.  It's an amazing feeling to be cognizant of the making of history in the very moment that it’s happening.

We cleared the group with the elevator guard and sent them in groups to the top floor.  As we opened the door to the suite, they were floored.  The panoramic view was incredible and the layout (both the room, food, drinks, and toys) were awesome!  There was no better room in the hotel.  It could never get better than this.

In order to make everyone feel at ease, we had everyone go around and introduce themselves.  We then had a little get-to-know-you and get-your-clothes-off game.  In the end, the game ran its course and the clothes came off.  Couples hooked up, things were done, and done again and again.

There was one couple who we had met at a previous party who we’d wanted to hook up with, so as the party finally wound down hours later, we took this couple to ourselves and stole away to one of the bedrooms.  The four of us just sat on the bed for a long time talking about everything.  We must have talked for at least an hour.  We talked about family, sex, religion, sex, backgrounds, and sex.  Eventually the clothes came off again, we swapped partners and we went at it.  Kissing, groping, fondling, fingering, licking, sucking, and cumming and cumming and cumming: the women a whole lot more than the men, but the men both got done too.  By now, the sun was up and it was time to give the final kisses and part ways.

We surveyed the room and realized that we had lived the dream!  This night had the best parts of every cool movie Vegas ever made: The Hangover, Get Him to the Greek, Indecent Proposal, Oceans 11 & 13, and a whole bunch more that I can’t remember.

After sleeping for another day, we cleaned it all up, packed everything away and made the drive back to Happy Valley to continue our wonderful lives.  But now with a huge smile on our face whenever we think back to that night.  

I Outed Myself

Last night I was out to dinner with a female friend of mine.  She was again expressing her frustrations about her soon-to-be ex-husband and his recurrent affairs during their 20-year marriage.  She was also saying how she had always wanted great sex with her husband, but apparently he'd been reserving that for the other women.  Now that she's on the verge of freedom, she's wanting to start dating and hooking up with guys and having a wild time.  But she said that she doesn't know where to start because all of her friends are older and married and don't do anything like that. . . .


So I told her.


I told her everything.  I showed her my profile on the swinging community website.  I showed her pictures.  I told her about the swinging partied.  I told her what I'd done with other men and women and what my husband has done.  I told her all of it!  I can't believe I did it.  Yikes!


She was so impressed.  She begged me to take her with her the next time we go out.  Of course, she'd be the unicorn that everyone's looking for, so why not?!

Going Online

Well, over the holidays, I started posting on LDSSexuality.com under the topic of, what else . . . , "Mormon Swingers"!

I told my basic story and linked back to this blog.