Thursday, November 14, 2013

First Swinger Sex on the Cruise

Nudists
We went to the nudist beach yesterday.  Ugggg.  It was the most popular excursion and the one officially sponsored as the charter’s main excursion, so we went.  It was a 45 minute bus ride from the pier.  The resort Hedo II shipped people in also.  It was 500 lounge chairs side-by-side.  The average age there was 55.  And the average body shape was average.  This means that there were a LOT of elderly overweight people.  This was NOT a sexual experience in the least.  And it was hot and noisy.  The DJs were Jamaican and they were good, but it felt like a frat party for grandparents.  Christy got topless and we walked out into the crystal clear water with the other 100’s of naked people.  (we keep our bottoms on).  Eventually she took hers off for a while.  After begin there for a couple of hours, we’d got ADHD because there was nothing to do, so we shared a cab with two other couples who were headed back to the ship.  That’s when we decided to cancel our excursion for Cozumel on Friday.  It was going to be walking around ruins.  We would rather just wander around the port and come and go on the ship.  Time is racing by too quickly.

Dating

As of last night (Wednesday) we still hadn’t played with anyone.  We were finding it almost frustrating to hook up with couples.  We all leave messages on each other’s door: “Call me”, “We’d like to meet for dinner”, “Hey hotties..”.  Then they leave something similar on our door, but these aren’t specific enough and no one is sure if the other is just being polite or friendly.  With the cruise half-way over, it’s time to start saying, “We want to have sex with you.  Let’s meet at the piano bar at 9:30 pm and then go to the play room.  Call us.”  Then if they don’t call us, we know that we can remove them from our list.  As of 6:30 last night, we had three couples on our priority list.  We actually have about 10-20, but there were 3 that we felt were in the pole position.  The young couple down the hall, the couple from Mexico, and the couple from New Orleans.  We had dinner plans with the couple from Mexico.  He doesn’t speak English, but Christy said that’s OK.  He’s tall, dark, and quiet.  She’s super hot.  They called at 5:30 to say that they forgot they have spa reservations at 6 pm, so they asked if we could move our dinner date to the next day.  OK.  It may be challenging to engage in dinner conversation if he doesn’t speak English.  We’ll see.  The playrooms don’t open until 10 pm so we’d have to have a break until then, or play in our cabin or their cabin.  Christy doesn’t like having couples be in our cabin/hotel room because there’s no escape for us if things get awkward.  I can respect that.  We then left a note on the door of the young couple down the hall saying that we’d like to meet for dinner and we left a voice message on their phone.  He came by in a robe to say that they got the message and that they’d see us “later".  They are VERY friendly, and hot.  They’re also on their honeymoon (very weird).  We waited until 7:15, but they didn’t come by our cabin or call. Not sure what that means.  So Christy and I went to dinner alone.  On the way there, we ran into the couple from New Orleans.  He is very funny and they are both very outgoing.  They are only a couple of years younger than us and they been married as long as we have.  They have been sexually open in their relationship for years, but have only started formally swinging a few months ago.  We went to dinner with them and then got seated at a table with two older couples.  Dinner was fine.  Christy and I then went back to our room to change into our 1920’s outfits for the evening’s theme and we met them back at the Crypt (a night club bar).  We talked for about 45 minutes very openly about sex and our experiences.  We then walked to the main playroom (Pharaoh’s Lounge) when we found an unoccupied mattress, got naked, and then had full-swap sex.  Most guys (80%) aren’t able to ejaculate when swapping with another woman.  I’m not one of those.  I’ve only not been able to orgasm with one woman (who was VERY hot, but she keep chatting with my wife who was laying next to her while I was having sex with her).  The woman last night (Tina) said that it’s difficult for her to orgasm, but that when she does, it’s good.  Christy orgasms easily and often, which is a huge turn-on for men.  Christy and Jay just started going for it and she came over and over and constantly.  I think at some point she was giving him a blow-job, but I wasn’t paying too much attention.  Tina told me that she likes to be touched and bitten lightly, so I did.  Because I do cum easily with penetration, I prefer to do a lot of fingering.  Because I don’t know how much a woman likes that, I do ask.  I DO NOT want a woman to fake with me and I want her to tell me if I’m doing something wrong.  So I did double and triple fingering, alternating hands and using the other hand on her clit and nipples.  It took 10 minutes, but eventually she orgasmed.  She gave me a blow-job, then I put a condom on and we had sex.  I came quickly as expected.  She seemed to like that.  Jay had been having sex with Christy and she was having one long orgasm.  Jay wasn’t able to get done, but that didn’t seem to come as a surprise to him.  He didn’t seem bothered by it.  Christy has learned that it’s not her fault if the guy doesn’t get done.  Then we all starting talking again while laying there naked.  After a few minutes, one of the playroom hosts came by and asked if we were done—others were waiting for a bed.  They don’t want couples just socializing in the playroom.  There’s a whole ship for that.  The playroom is for sex.  We gave them a hug goodnight and then came back to our room and fell asleep.  It’s now the next morning (Thursday), and I’m sitting on our cabin’s balcony looking off into the blue expanse—no land in sight.

3 comments:

  1. Why can't most men ejaculate when swapping with another women? It would seem like the excitement of being with someone new would make every guy ejaculate real quick.

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    1. There are a couple of reasons that most men don't ejaculate when swinging. One reason is that they don't want to. Once they do, then they're done. The want to keep going and going and going and not lose their position. Some men just can't get done, and that may be because they've trained themselves for too long to just keep going without ejaculating. Condoms can also be a problem for some men. That's true for my husband. He can usually ejaculate once with another woman with a condom, but then when he tries an hour later with a condom, he just can't get done, so he takes off the condom and plays with me.

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