We sure are writing a lot today. I just saw what Joe wrote while I was writing this. It's pretty common to have a couple back out of a date a day or two before, so it's best to not put all your eggs in one basket. We would never promise two couples that we'd meet and then cancel one of them, but it's not unheard of to tell one couple "we don't yet know if we'll be free that night, but we'd like to keep chatting with you in case we can get free and if you're still available." That way, you don't burn a bridge with a hot couple by saying, "no thanks, we picked someone else and we're not choosing you" and then at the last minute you call them back and say, "hey, the first couple bailed on us, so are you still available?" I mention all this because this is a copy of the email that I just wrote to our backup couple. They asked us what we like in an evening, and I thought it worth posting here.
We kind of like meeting over dinner somewhere and getting to know each other. It's nice for us women to talk on the phone first. Usually by taking on the phone and reading each other's profiles, we kind of know that we have the same boundaries. At dinner, if everyone is having fun, then we go up to the hotel room. If at dinner, someone isn't feeling it, then we just say so, but so far it's never happened, but if it did, we wouldn't take offense. Up in the room, we can order dessert and keep chatting. Then we find a way to make it to the bedroom and us women undress and get cozy or we two take a bath together. (I orgasm easily and often). Then we invite the guys to join us on the bed and we women move back and forth between our guys--maybe I give oral to my husband while your husband does me from behind. I have to be honest: my husband has a hard time holding back from cuming once he goes in another woman. It only takes a couple of minutes of thrusting. That's why he makes sure that the other woman has had as many orgasms from his mouth, fingers, toys, my mouth, my fingers, our double-ended dildo between us, and you husband's cock, before he cums in you. We sometimes enjoy anal sex, but we've never tried it with another couple and we'd never be pushy about it. Usually after I've come 10 times with you and your husband, and then my husband cums once with you, we sit back and relax for a few minutes and then 10 minutes later, he's ready for a final round with either you or me, and I'm always good for another 10 unless I've been contorted into a pretzel too much already. Then everyone sort of gets dressed and chats and laughs and basks in the glow before hugging good night.